Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year and still haven't kissed her, i wonder sometimes if she's not into me and whenever i bring it up she goes quet. What do i do?

2007-10-15 09:51:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a only child but we didnt have the money for a lawyer, and stuff. Now we went back today. and my grandpa used somme really low and so rude things, I hate him. My hubby was in the army reserves (well he is) and they go, you appear quite a bit bigger than last tiem we was here. well his shlulder got messed up in iraq. so he cant pass his pt tests. Also they bourght up sayind i am not competitent. (which i have suffered from depression, but i got meds for it, and also cut, but i have quit doing it) we have kept bank account clear, not going - but only one time, cuz i subtracted wrong. We have been trying to pay off all our bills, and just want a house. but while we were there my grandpa literally "lied under oath" about things aobut me to make it seem like i am not abele to handle the money
he really hurt me and my husband today, iwth some of the things he said to and about us, some of which were lies. what should i do i never want to see him again. and he really hurt us

2007-10-15 09:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by tiffany w 3 in Family

My husband and was offers a 6 figure job, I called my mom to tell her the good news, i told her a little more about the benefits and she asked what his salary was, I told her and she didnt say much. The next day my brother told me she was mad when she got off the phone. I thought she'd be happy for us but i think she's jealous--im not sure what to say to her. Any advice?

2007-10-15 09:50:59 · 7 answers · asked by avz 2 in Family

My best friend is a guy, and he recently got his first girlfriend(I am not friends with her/never met her...just heard about her).....I told him that I knew that he wasn't going to talk to me as much anymore but I didn't want him to get too carried away with it......it was going as usual for the first week, but starting last week, he's been talking to her(his girlfriend's) friends a lot more.....me and him are in the same lunch class and so we always talk in class and sit together at lunch, but today, the WHOLE time he was talking to his girlfriend's best friend and barely said 2 words to me, AND he moved away from me at lunch.....I knew he was going to not talk to me as much to some extent but I didn't think it would be this bad.......I don't want to say anything to him though b/c I don't want to be the "clingy" friend...but I know that if and when this won't work out, he'll come crying back to me but he'll have already lost me....so please, any advice would be helpful

2007-10-15 09:50:59 · 8 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

We always hear things about kids feeling bad because their parents aren't together, but were you happy when your folks split up? I was, because I was sick of them arguing all the time and fighting over the dumbest BS ever. They are so much more effective as parents now that they aren't together. What about you?

2007-10-15 09:50:43 · 18 answers · asked by DumbBlondeNY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the advice is for my friend, and to make it less confusing im going to ask from her point of view

I like this guy a lot, and i think he likes me too. We went to a movie, and he always was holding my hand and putting his arm around me, he even tried to kiss me. (this was only the 2nd i have seen him) we never "went out" or anything, but we talkd on the phone for like 3 hrs every day for a week after that.
he mentiond going to this dance thing and me going with him, but only once then never said anything again.
me and some friends went to the dance, he didnt know we ended up going. when we got to the dance, we found him, and he was all over this other girl! he saw me and gave me a hug, then me and my friends just kinda left. i called him when i got home. he said he would be home soon and call but never did.
i still like him a lott

this is not my problem, its my friends. but what should i tell her! should she call him.
i think hes a jerk

2007-10-15 09:48:23 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to fantasize about my 64 yr old co-worker. She's QUITE attractive for her age

2007-10-15 09:48:00 · 17 answers · asked by Joseph Stephen B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is a reasonably amount that you would have the girls in your bridal party pay for a Brides dress?? I know for myself if I was getting married I would try to be reasonable and fair to all the girls and not just accomodate to one or too do you agree???

2007-10-15 09:46:54 · 44 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Weddings

2007-10-15 09:46:53 · 3 answers · asked by Lorrie D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you tell your ex if you were going to move to another country?

2007-10-15 09:46:34 · 17 answers · asked by zora 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep having dreams that im pregnant or i have a child.
=//

2007-10-15 09:44:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And all details were worked out. No strings attached

2007-10-15 09:42:41 · 32 answers · asked by iron1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My little sister tattels on the stupidist things what should I DO PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-15 09:42:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a coworker and i were emailing each other and he said let's make luv and i said i wasn't sure. anyway later on in the day, he told me he wanted to touch me and me touch him. i then changed my mind and told him i wanted us to touch. after his shift was over, we met at the top floor of the library which is where we work and we tried find a spot, but i freakd out thinking someone would see us. he could tell i wasn't sure and told me we shouldn't do it since i wasn't sure and that i wasn't into it. he just seemed really cool about it when i asked him if he was upset and he seemed laid back. he could tell i was nervous and confused and he kinda hugged me. the next day i emailed him from home saying that I want him and me to still do it, but then he said he couldn't do it since he was horny yesterday and that i should do it with someone i luv . he said he was sorry and that he hoped i didn't feel used. was he using me or did he feel rejectd? how should i move past this?

2007-10-15 09:42:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Scenario: Your best friend since you were 8 is getting married and would like for you to be her Matron of Honor. (Typically the matron of honor is married and walks by herself)

In this scenario there are two a Matrons of Honor, (for understanding purposes we will call them Matron 1 & Matron 2) and they were supposed to walk either by themselves or with each other.

The bride decides at the last moment that her wedding party may look a little lop sided if they don’t walk with someone, and has the Groom choose two more men to be his groomsmen, ironically one of the men he chooses happens to be Matron 1’s husband.

Now! The Matron 2 is upset and feels as if her marriage is being insulted because she doesn’t get to walk with her husband.

Matron 2 tells bride day of wedding that because of this she will not be able to be in the wedding?

Is the bride wrong for letting one Matron walk with her husband and not the other?

Or is Matron #2 wrong for not being in the wedding?

2007-10-15 09:42:16 · 23 answers · asked by peanutbudda 2 in Weddings

2007-10-15 09:37:14 · 43 answers · asked by Tiggy want's a bit..... 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok today me and my friends were outside, and i had an apple and the guy i like, grabbed it out of my hand. the apple fell on the floor and i was trying to get it. me and him started kicking it and then we stopped for like 2 seconds. I then grabbed it and threw it at him. i am soooo mad at myself for throwing the apple at him. I dont know what i should do! cuz i think that i hit him pretty hard! plz help!!!!!!

2007-10-15 09:30:05 · 9 answers · asked by Blahhhhhh 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my gf have been goin out for 2 months we go on dates and stuff but its uasully with a crowd of people so its rly hard to get her alone to try to put the first move on her to make out we have not made out yet weve kissed i need help on that??? also usally we go to down town after school on friday so its rly har to get her away from her friends to try to make out??? and wat if i do it at school??? how wuld i do it???? wen??? how to i get her there???do i say anything before we make out wat should i do?? teen couple. im a guy thanks

2007-10-15 09:29:56 · 10 answers · asked by tomzzz 1 in Singles & Dating

mmk so this guy i like and i just started hanging out more, and being all flirty and stuff, and yah we hung out all friday night at the school ftball game, like holding hands and whatever cuz we were "cold" and then after the homecoming dance the next day[he didnt go to the dance] we hung out at thi party for like severeal hours and ppl kept on being like are you two going out yet? and stuff, and yah he was kinda trashed and i relly wasnt, and yah he haad his arms around me all night, and when another guy tried to like grab me or whatever hes got all protective, and then by the end of the night we were making out and, today was the first day back at school since that day, and its wasnt awkward or anything, and he told me he remembered everything, and idk i think he might like me but i dont know what to do i want to go out with him, but im to "old-fashioned" to ask him, so yeah what now?

2007-10-15 09:26:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lately my bf has been saying things like "we're not in this short term" and things like that and today i caught him staring at me and he said "i feel really good about us".....we've been dating for a year and half and he hasnt said this stuff before....do u think hes thinking of marriage or proposing or am i jumping the gun?

2007-10-15 09:26:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Don't get me wrong, I love sex, but it has never been affected by emotion for me. I pretty much do not feel emotion when I am having it. Even if it is with someone I love, I still do not feel any profound "loving" feelings during sex. I have never developed feelings for a person after having sex with them. I do not form attachments to people because I had sex with them. Sex is purely physical for me and I am pretty sure it always will be.

Is this odd??

2007-10-15 09:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Singles & Dating

We are relatively new to the milwaukee area. We moved to the north side of milwaukee and we hate the area we live in, near 76 and brown deer. We have a 2 year old daughter that we want to take outside to play with other kids, but not in the area that we live. Anyone have any recommendations on were we can take our 2 year old daughter to play with other kids and be safe?

2007-10-15 09:23:02 · 1 answers · asked by csmithballsout 4 in Friends

2007-10-15 09:21:52 · 21 answers · asked by thegodfather7375 2 in Marriage & Divorce

last night i kissed her on the cheek. and she blushed. i being the worst with women, took it as a rejection. so i explained to her that i liked her and hope fully become boy/ girl friend. then paniced and offered to finish some home work. while doing the HW i appolagised for what happened back there, she says "no no, i want to get to know you to. lets just see what happens". what a relief. then i reliesed that i see her every day in my first hour class. she seemed happier today, and said she was nervous, and felt weird. i couldent think of any thing to say, it was kind of akward. but now that the secrets out, should i just roll with it, or explain to her more. am i over stressing?

2007-10-15 09:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in my 20's and have the most overprotective, old fashioned parents...sometimes it's a good thing and sometimes...it's kinda hard...

For me to get where i am today with their trust and for them not to get paranoid...is HUGE...i'm the oldest so they STILL have the hardest time letting go (even with the littlest things 16 yr olds can do grrr) I'm a simple girl and i usually don't go along w. the crowd...i've got values and i'm a smart cookie :) Being the oldest, i've kinda had to grow up and be mature compared to others my own age but of course, they'll see something else, as "innocent".

I was planning on having some on my bday until my cousin brought it up (getting me drunk) and of course, the FREAKED...the whole "drinking" thing didn't even come up w. them 'til now and they're back to freaking out again..

HELP...is it really worth it?

2007-10-15 09:19:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They actually got all the papers and stuff this time. My mom just told me she is going back to my dad. I cant tke this anymore! This has happended three times what makes her think this times going to be any different. I keep getting my life flipped up side down! When they were together my mom acted so depressed and my dad always yelled and told her to leave, they didnt even sleep in the same bed together.Me and my siblings were sad when she told us they were going to get a divorce and she said shes never going back and its over for real this time, i took it hard and sucked it up, i got used to our life now she throws this crap in my face! I cant take this much longer..im really hating my life right now. And all my aunts and uncles knew she was going to go back noone belived that this was real, i guess they were right.

2007-10-15 09:19:24 · 25 answers · asked by Summerrr [[<3]] 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate my friends!! They are so mean! They never email me! They never call me. When I see them all they talk about is their other friends! One time I didn't go to the camp we always go 2 and when they got back and said it was their best year ever!! When I was going there they always said they hated it! I'm sick of this! I cry about it all the time. What should I do? Please don't just say stop being their friend or whatever. I want them to know how I feel but when I try to tell them they act like its no big deal! Please help me! Tell me what I should do?

2007-10-15 09:19:19 · 15 answers · asked by dreamergirl443 2 in Friends

My boyfriend told me this, and it made me think. But it must be natural, what do you guys think?

2007-10-15 09:18:37 · 14 answers · asked by Nikita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you let go and know that he is in a better place with his family? I mean honestly do you feel better?

2007-10-15 09:18:06 · 5 answers · asked by Francesca 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime things are going well, I freak out. When I feel happy, I panic. To the point that when something bad happens I feel almost releived. I know its crazy, but those feelings are familar to me and being happy freaks me out because my past has proven it will only "last so long" before something bad happens~which it usually happens all at once. Sometimes I think I even CAUSE things to screw up just a little because, as much as I say I hate the drama, it feels like a rush when I get it. I want to break this pattern and am not sure how. Everyone is telling me counselling, yes I know it helps. But I have no choice but to work 40plus hours to support my 3 kids(I am a single parent) so I dont even have time for it. (And yes I am on medication) But I still crave cutting and sometimes almost hope for an excuse to do it and I know its sick and as much as I wanna let go, Im freaked out because part of me, in a sick way, likes the feeling. Im so conflicted adn I just want to stop the struggle

2007-10-15 09:17:55 · 1 answers · asked by t 2 in Singles & Dating