a only child but we didnt have the money for a lawyer, and stuff. Now we went back today. and my grandpa used somme really low and so rude things, I hate him. My hubby was in the army reserves (well he is) and they go, you appear quite a bit bigger than last tiem we was here. well his shlulder got messed up in iraq. so he cant pass his pt tests. Also they bourght up sayind i am not competitent. (which i have suffered from depression, but i got meds for it, and also cut, but i have quit doing it) we have kept bank account clear, not going - but only one time, cuz i subtracted wrong. We have been trying to pay off all our bills, and just want a house. but while we were there my grandpa literally "lied under oath" about things aobut me to make it seem like i am not abele to handle the money
he really hurt me and my husband today, iwth some of the things he said to and about us, some of which were lies. what should i do i never want to see him again. and he really hurt us
2007-10-15 09:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by tiffany w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he really hurt us, and i never want to see him. but he handels givin me my "allowence every month" what shuld we do, i mean he really offended us and took some cheap shots today
2007-10-15 09:56:02 · update #1
I did tell the court he lied, but it dont matter with tat, its just word against word he had no proof either,
2007-10-15 10:02:45 · update #2
Ok, our bank account has gone negative once, but it has been positive for over 8-9 months now
2007-10-15 11:22:37 · update #3
What makes you think he wants to be associated with you? Usually when money issues like this are resolved, the involved parties never speak to each other again. Just because he's family doesn't mean he's not a money grubbing scumbag. You're better off starting your own family, because he certainly isn't worried about you.
2007-10-15 09:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him and talk to him one on one. He maybe in the wrong, however he may have his reasons of doing what he did. As long as he is not spending your money on his own personal things. Make a deal with him if possible, such as hey grandpa if I keep my bank out straight for six months and take a money management/financial management class will you be willing to release my funds. Communicating is going to be your best bet since your money is still associated with him you would only be hurting yourself more by cutting him out of your life.
2007-10-15 10:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your grandpa get some kind of kick back from giving you an allowance every month??? If so that would be proof enough of why he wants to be kept in control of the money
2007-10-15 10:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can prove he lied then you can get your money, but until then you will have to let him give you your monthly allowance because he had enough to prove you have some problems. If you don't want to talk to him, than don't.
2007-10-15 09:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the question again?
2007-10-15 09:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋