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My best friend is a guy, and he recently got his first girlfriend(I am not friends with her/never met her...just heard about her).....I told him that I knew that he wasn't going to talk to me as much anymore but I didn't want him to get too carried away with it......it was going as usual for the first week, but starting last week, he's been talking to her(his girlfriend's) friends a lot more.....me and him are in the same lunch class and so we always talk in class and sit together at lunch, but today, the WHOLE time he was talking to his girlfriend's best friend and barely said 2 words to me, AND he moved away from me at lunch.....I knew he was going to not talk to me as much to some extent but I didn't think it would be this bad.......I don't want to say anything to him though b/c I don't want to be the "clingy" friend...but I know that if and when this won't work out, he'll come crying back to me but he'll have already lost me....so please, any advice would be helpful

2007-10-15 09:50:59 · 8 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I would talk to the guy wat it makes you feel and i all else fails back off a bit...let him do whatever it is he is doing...he will eventually come around and see why he wasnt with her in the first place.

But being a friend, you can talk abt how your afraid to lose your friendship with him and you feel ignored because clearly that's whats happening. If you bck off he will notice and talk to you and if not then you know what you shld do....because how long cn one wait for their friend to notice them.

2007-10-15 09:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by xoticeyez1975 2 · 0 0

Try telling him that u have been feeling "left out" or something like that. tell him that u know that he got his first girlfriend so he must be happy but tell him that friends can last forever but dates and girlfriends only last for the couple of months (or days if unlucky)(or years if lucky). And if he doesnt do anything about it than tell him that it is either her or u. Just remember wat i said. Friend r forever. Hope this helps :)

2007-10-15 09:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Avery 4 · 0 0

stop being so jealous of him, you guessed he would not pay that much attention to you,yes he will make new friends from his GF,i know i have been in that same spot my best friend is a girl, she has a new Bf an she hardly talkes to me anymore an when i am around i'm hardly talked too , try getting to know his new friends too

2007-10-15 09:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0 0

this exact same thing happens to me everytime my best friend gets a new boyfriend. honestly the only thing that works for me is talking about the situation openly and honestly because giving hints NEVER works and just waists time. so before it gets an worse (trust me it will) do something about it.

2007-10-15 09:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sorry this is happening to you. It's happened to me :( I fought to keep my best friend...a guy. But when he got a girlfriend, he completly pushed me aside. he stopped calling me, he stopped answering my calls. Stopped hanging out. He didnt even invite me to any of his baby showers. That hurt a lot. But that's wat happens when people grow up. They grow apart. It takes a true friend to keep you in their life. Tell him how you feel. I told my ex best friend how he made me feel and that I can no longer consider him my best friend, bc he has dissed me too much. Dont let it get that far. Speak up now. Dont acuse him or get mad, just speak to him. Suggest double dates or invite them over ur house for a movie. But get to know his gf and things can be easier :). Good luck!

2007-10-15 09:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by J. Lee 3 · 0 0

properly greater often than not all friendships pass by using this. perhaps in case you tell him i be attentive to this sounds very corny yet once you tell him the form you experience then perhaps he will start up chatting with you returned. or you may attempt being friends along with his female chum and her friends so as which you all can communicate

2016-11-08 10:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

try to become friends with his girlfriend. make her see that you are only friends with the guy so that she doesn't feel threatened by your relationship with him.

try inviting her to sit with you at lunch or something...

2007-10-15 09:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Darkwolf 5 · 0 0

try to be his friends and try to become his new girlfriend friend
so that everyone could hang out and enjoy each other company

cool

2007-10-15 10:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by simple J 4 · 0 0

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