would you tell your ex if you were going to move to another country?
2007-10-15 09:46:34 · 17 answers · asked by zora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm divorced and hell yes unless you want to get arrested ..we have kids together and he needs to know my where abouts and visa verse..BUT i have custody of the kids so I'm hoping one day HE will move to another country my kids could care less if he went or not they are teenagers now
2007-10-15 12:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by robin r 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Depends on the circumstances of your split. If you have ended the relationship on good terms and good friends then yes you should tell them as you have a friendship with them.
If you ended on bad terms then it may seem that you just trying to hurt them - especially if it was you who did the dumping and they have feelings for you still.
It up to you whether you tell him but he will probably hear it from other people too and if you are leaving, make sure it for you and not that you running away from him and all the problems.
Good luck!
Lx
2007-10-15 16:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by SunshineApple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. If you haven't spoken to them in a long time, no, as quite frankly, it's none of their business. If you are still friends, of course. If you have children (and there are no child protection issues), then yes. If you want to move on, and want to start again, no. Me, personally - no, as there would be no reason to tell them so.
2007-10-16 07:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by dev2c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would honestly like to know if my ex was moving country. why are you moving? make sure your not running from problems. If you were close then yes it would be nice to tell him. i'd tell any of my ex's
2007-10-15 17:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by SuperChris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Not unless i had kids with him or her!! Why would i need to tell them. In hopes that they beg me not to forget it. They don't deserve to know anything. Not trying to be mean but why would you need to. There is no point.
2007-10-15 17:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by spleefarella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there are kids involved of which you have joint custody... none of the ex's business.
2007-10-15 16:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by tiny Valkyrie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there's kids in between of course!!! if not then it depends on the communication you guys still have, i don't know if you guys ended the relationship in good terms!
good luck!
2007-10-15 16:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wouldnt tell mine if i was moving to a different planet, ex is ex
2007-10-15 16:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by paul c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I would. We stay in touch via email, and I would just want him to know.
2007-10-15 17:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would have no choice because of the children.
2007-10-16 03:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋