Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

we were not raised together.

2007-10-15 11:50:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been together for a little over a two months and im not sure if this is the route i want to go. His lease is abou to be up at his apartments. We are together 7days a week. He sleeps at my house or i sleep at his apartment. Since day one we been together non stop. I know that i want to spend the rest of my life with him but im not too sure if its too early to move together. My bestfriend said go for it. Im 30 hes 24. We share everything. He dont have a checking account so i have all his money and i get his checks so i know how much he makes and he can pay the bills. Im just not sure what to do. Please help me. If you need additional info just let me know. We have an appointment in December to start the process of making him legal. Is it too soon? Should i follow my heart? What do you think? Please be honest and help me out.

2007-10-15 11:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like 3 mo. ago. We were attracted to one another. Things got so messed up because I was intoxicated, and he was sober and anyway we almost had sex and then he couldn't get it up. So after that we would see one another and he would blow me off. I really liked him. I wonder what he may think of me now. I guess I may want to talk with him. Is it a good idea, or is he an asshole for ignoring me for a while.

2007-10-15 11:48:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently I have found hat my son has been looking a pornography and taking Victoria's Secret catalogues. What consequence if any, should I give him?

2007-10-15 11:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is so ridiculous my girlfriend is always taking care of her mother. She will come maybe 2 nights a week on a good week. Should I be mad? sometimes I feel bad but honestly her mom has been bad to her and she don't deserve her to take care of her. All of her other kids want to put her in a home.

2007-10-15 11:44:55 · 11 answers · asked by sheila 1 in Family

Ok, long story. My husband and I have a 6 month old daughter my mother-in-law's first grandchild and she had all boys. Everytime my husband and I see her all she can do is talk about her nephew and his wife and baby. Which are all the same age as my husband and baby but we are not close at all.
She is always forcing pics of them on us and talking about them pretty much non stop, and we never ask about them. She even made their daughter a baby blanket and sewed her name on it. And didn't make one for her granddaughter. My husband has already talked to her about this, he told her that we really didn't need to hear about them all the time if we want to know we'll ask and its like its worse. Also my husband is a police officer and her nephew is in the military and she has all kinds of pics of him in his uniform in her house and even her car and not one of her own son in his uniform. And it really makes him feel bad about himself. I don't want my daughter to feel like him. what to do?

2007-10-15 11:44:49 · 4 answers · asked by alex-mommy 3 in Family

does the fact that women are small and fragile turn guys on? Like, do they like feeling that they the protector? is it sexy? what are your thoughts on this, I'm VERY interested. Thanks

2007-10-15 11:43:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man and I have been together for about 7 months. we have had sex probably once in the past 4 weeks. I am getting soo frustrated with it. I don't know why but it seems like I alway have to come on to him! It's getting to the point where I really don't htink I can handle this relationship and I get depressed and moody so easily since we never are intimate or have any affection anymore...what can be the problem??? And when we do have sex he lasts like not even a minute! ughhh helppp

2007-10-15 11:42:19 · 8 answers · asked by SoberAsADuck 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm a financially and emotionally stable parent and the mother won't allow me to see my child. I have many reasons for believing she is an unfit mother but aren't sure as to which would be relavent in my case. Any body have any experience or advise with this sort of thing?

2007-10-15 11:40:35 · 13 answers · asked by Alexandra F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Did it work out for you?

2007-10-15 11:40:09 · 11 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am tired of being the bigger better person for my husband's sake ... I never let anyone treat me the way she does... I need help on how to respectfully put her in her place ...

2007-10-15 11:40:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley V 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm in love!!!!!!!!!
about 2 or 3 years ago my brother-in-low intreduced a family to my family.
there are 2 girls in that family and i love one of them.
i didn't sayanything then
but sudenly they moved to another city ( about 2 months after i met them)
i have been in love with her but she dosen't know about it
and it's been 3-4 years i haven't been intrested in any other girl, because i think i've found the one for me.
i don't know what to do!!
my brother-in-low has theire number and he calls them sometimes.
i took their house number of my sister's phone and they don't know it.
i don't know what to do!?!?!?!?!?!?
i have not been talking to anyone about this(just my sistre)
this is a love of been carrying in my heart and on my sholders for 3-4 years, and i think i can't take it anymore
i think if i call her, there is a posibility that she'll say no. so i don't whant to do something that could make her go at of my life 4ever.
i look at her number evry night before i sleep.

2007-10-15 11:36:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im only 14 and i technicly only have crushes on/date guys who are cute. even if they are nerdy, they are usually cute. my friend she is all up in my face telling me about how bittchy i am and that i should look more into personality. i DO look into personality too. its really important to me. i dont want a boyfriend whos a jerk. but they are usually cute too. but i mean, im just a kid. is it really wrong for me to want cute guys ALONG with personality?

2007-10-15 11:36:15 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend came over but was acting kind of weird. I think he smokes meth. He had this smell, not really sure what it is and he refused to kiss me and was kind of freaking out. He worries me. He didn't tell me what he did. But does him kissing me after what he smoked affect me? Will it be like a smoked it too? Or was he just embarrassed that I somewhat caught that he's doing something?

2007-10-15 11:34:26 · 7 answers · asked by golosa 2 in Singles & Dating

Because from what i have seen and have proof of, parents hit their children when they dont listen and behave. But when it comes to fights in school, girls will beat up other girls, because they wont listen either. Dont you think that if you were around the age 14, and you were calling ur mother or father horrible words or cussed behind their backs and they found out, don't you think they would hit you? The kids who get hit as a child, beat others up. thats wut i think as a 8th grader :\

2007-10-15 11:32:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My best friend Kelly had never liked a guy until 6th grade, when she liked this guy Austin. She really liked him, until he sent her an email that cussed her out. Than, only a few months later, she likes him again. Now, she's liked him for about a month and she just isn't herself anymore. She used to always be trying to get together with her friends. Now, it's all about Austin. And that's only one thing she's changed! All of her friends don't like what she's become, and none of us will admit it. And the thing is, Austin likes her a little. But Kelly thinks that they are totally and madly IN LOVE. They aren't going out, but I know they will if I don't do something quickly. I REALLY don't want them to go out, because things will be awkward and their relationship will be so fragile that one arguement could easily split them apart. Who should talk to her to make her be the old person I knew? How should I get Kelly to stop liking Austin? How do you think I should get my friend back?

2007-10-15 11:32:08 · 17 answers · asked by KeyLight Knight 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, if you could talk to a hot girl about not much or an ok looking girl about something smart, which would you choose and why?

2007-10-15 11:28:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 11:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok..next month is my 4 year anniversary with my husband and I have planned a picnic in our living room for us. I was thinking his buddies could go out with him the 1st part of the day and when the sun is setting they drop him off. When he opens the apartment door he hears our songs playing with led lights lighting the hall way and the pinic on the living room floor. With all of dinner being heart shaped and his favorite bottle of wine. Silk rose petals are also lining the floor to the picnic. While apple pie is in the oven. Opinions please what would guys do if they were to walk into an apartment like that? I am debating rather or not to do this.

2007-10-15 11:23:32 · 21 answers · asked by victoriarose1982 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my kids yell swear at me treat me with no respect, they are12,13 we have been away from a bad relationship with a dad for 3 years i thought i could do better with them without him around but it is worse, they say because i wont hit them.they are scared of theire dad and wont go with him.now i have moved in with another man who claimed to be better and wanted to help,who doesnt talk to my kids do anything with us only complains about what they dowrong and he went to their dads house to tell him that they were swearing and yelling atme and do nothing to help,well neiother does he and i have a 2 year old with him and i take care of his diabetic dog and old gramma I have no time for me ,i cant take any more i need something to change i need help, please help me i dont know what to do i feel like i am going crazy i never t hought my kids would treat me so bad all i ever wanted was to be lovrd and resepcted. i know i do all i can do for everyone why do i deserve3 to be treated like this?

2007-10-15 11:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by Julie F 1 in Family

my g/f's father is coming back in 2 weeks from kuwait. He is a a a srg. major or something of high command in the navy. He is on his 2nd tour and is a real tuff man apparently. I talked to him once on the phone, just from talking to him, i became instantly sweaty from the words he was saying to me. He started to jokje w/ me on the phone about his daughter, which my g/f said her father never does, to anyone, not even his son-in-law who is also in the navy. I am curious to see if people think it would be a good impression or not, just to joke w/ hjim, and dress up as a sailor when we go to his house for me to mee him?

2007-10-15 11:21:09 · 14 answers · asked by hayabusa1989 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and have never had a sister or brother in my life. my mom just recentely got a foster kid in. At first I felt bad for her but now she's just turned into a complete brat and it's because of my mom. My mom never punishes her when she throws my stuff, hits the animals, and doesn't listen to either of us. She's also learned that if we are going somewhere she doesn't wanna go all she has to do is throw a fit or complain she's sick and we don't go. It's putting mine and my mom's life on hold. Even though we both know she's not really sick. This has really seperated my mom and I. I'm planning on moving in with my boyfriend with in the next year and I don't wanna leave my mom feeling as if I abandoned her. but the biggest problem is is when she does something I usually get in trouble for it. because I'm supposed to be watching her but the thing is I'm not the parent she is is there any advice you can give me to talking to my mom about this problem. or just dealing with the little girl.

2007-10-15 11:18:30 · 4 answers · asked by sexycowgirl 2 in Family

so the girl im dating isnt a virgin and i am , im 1 year older than her and i feel weird about it anyone else in this situation? how do you feel about it?

2007-10-15 11:17:53 · 6 answers · asked by Whitefalcon684 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I am just curious what do you see as romance? Mine is candle lit dinner with roses and nice bottle of wine... However some men tend to think that it is only a female thing to like that.

Better yet discribe what you would imagine as date of romance you will never forget. (do not be to graphic please).

2007-10-15 11:16:59 · 13 answers · asked by victoriarose1982 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a brother who is a violent alcoholic and borderline retarded in intelligence. We don't know what to do with him.

He can't get a job because of his criminal record.

He can't keep a job because his alcoholic temper eventually flares up.

He can't live with anyone, not my parents or even a roommate, because of his problem.

My parents have been shelling out lots of cash to keep him in a rental apartment but it is becoming a financial burden. They have considered investing in property to give him a place to live (and not waste money on rent) but it is a risky investment.

I don't feel it should be my parents' problem but their attitude is that they need to do something because he can't seem to take care of himself.

What options does my family have in dealing with my brother?

2007-10-15 11:16:07 · 4 answers · asked by Professor 2 in Family

2007-10-15 11:08:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-15 11:07:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have the BIGGEST crush on a junior and i am a freshmen. i have never spoke to him b4 but he is really hot and i hear he is super nice and he is also a great student. but everytime he is somewhere i am always behind him or close by him so i can get his attention i always smile at him. but today at lunch i was sitting at the table and he was sitting in front of me, and he kept on looking at me and i smiled at him a little bit. we made eye contact with each other at least 5 times. and then his friends started looking back at me. do u think he thinks i am stalking him or do u think he has gotten the idea i like him cuz whenever he is around me i cant stop smiling and blushing?? please tell me what u think....cuz i am really afraid he thinks i stalk him and i dont i just like looking at him.....

2007-10-15 11:05:39 · 19 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Friends

well i baby sat one since she was about 9/10 yrs old .she has a boyfriend,no job to supprt their baby . oh my ,i'm an aunty who is scarified of this situation . she was 14 i think when she had the baby . her body was just forming into a young girl . /lady .

2007-10-15 11:05:24 · 2 answers · asked by linda h 1 in Family

i honestly try my hardest. they cant trust me and i dont know how to prove that i can be trusted ?

2007-10-15 11:04:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family