im only 14 and i technicly only have crushes on/date guys who are cute. even if they are nerdy, they are usually cute. my friend she is all up in my face telling me about how bittchy i am and that i should look more into personality. i DO look into personality too. its really important to me. i dont want a boyfriend whos a jerk. but they are usually cute too. but i mean, im just a kid. is it really wrong for me to want cute guys ALONG with personality?
2007-10-15 11:36:15 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you are still just a kid, live it up! Just be careful with yourself. ;) Im your age too so I know what you mean. But just make sure that you arent dating an ****** and you'll be fine. I was kinda just looking at the "pretty girls", but most of them were pretty b!tchy. I now have a girlfriend who is pretty and has a great personality. I havent been this happy in 3 years...(last time i was in a relationship)
2007-10-15 11:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to your friend. Does she have an ugly boyfriend? hah jk...for real though youll find in life that no matter what kind of person you have a crush on, physical attraction is very important. It should never be the only thing you look at but you cant be in a relationship with someone unless you are attracted to that person. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and anyway would you stay with a guy who is cute and has a really horrible personality? probably not. Tell your friend that she can go date ugly guys with great personalities..and you can date cute guys with great personalities. :) It doesnt sound like youre being a *****..youre allowed to be picky if you think you deserve the best.
2007-10-15 11:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by kissyourself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt evaluate it incorrect yet i assume some might evaluate it somewhat shallow. of course each and every physique has a 'what they might choose a woman to appear as if' besides the incontrovertible fact that it doesnt propose they are going to finally end up with precisely what they choose.
2017-01-03 17:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's natural that you like cute guys. I have to say its not wrong..but it's wrong. I don't really know how to say it. Well in some cases its okay, but in other cases not so good. Maybe if your friend directs you the wrong way, she shouldn't direct you at all, and she shouldn't be your friend if she isn't supportive.
2007-10-15 16:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as long as you do not ignore their TRUE personality and fantasize them into something they are not and never were and never will be.THATS where girls get into trouble.
There is NOTHING shallow about wanting someone who is cute and a decent human being.
2007-10-15 11:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO i mean really im 13 and i only like cutish guys and sometimes you have to go out of your boundaries and go get aloung with and okay guy. but no stinky armpits that'GROSS now you know nobody at our ages likes ugly guys but if their okay you know think of how they act.
2007-10-15 11:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
though at 14 you have no idea what you really want
wait until you are 25
by then you know EXACTLY what you want
2007-10-15 11:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no its fine
personality and looks usually come hand in hand.. but looks are usually judged first
2007-10-15 11:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Deeds 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋