like 3 mo. ago. We were attracted to one another. Things got so messed up because I was intoxicated, and he was sober and anyway we almost had sex and then he couldn't get it up. So after that we would see one another and he would blow me off. I really liked him. I wonder what he may think of me now. I guess I may want to talk with him. Is it a good idea, or is he an asshole for ignoring me for a while.
2007-10-15 11:48:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
say hi to him - what would be the worst that could happen? he is either going to be the Nice guy you want him to be or he is going to be the asshole you dont want him to be. honestly? it would be better to find that out before you let yourself get wrapped up in the idea anyway - so take the bull by the horns and see what fate has instore for you. i dont think the past "situation" should deter you from finding out about someone who obviously intrigues you.
2007-10-15 11:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just embarrassed....and also stubborn. He probably didn't want you to think of the myth that older men "lose it" after a certain age.
THIS MAY HAVE HAPPENED:
He was so attracted to you, and REALLY wanted you, that the stress actually affected the erection. This may happen when the blood that's supposed to go "there" went throughout this body when his heart rate sky-rocketed. Take it as a compliment....and go get your man. Cause if any man feels that way toward you, he may be worth it......
2007-10-15 12:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go so far as to call him an @sshole. Maybe he was just embarrassed because he couldn't get it up last time. the male ego is very sensitive, you know! He might think that you didn't like the fact that he couldn't perform, and might have not wanted to face you for fear of being ridiculed. Why not talk to him if you were attracted to him once? Unless you were looking at him through Vodka-goggles!
2007-10-15 11:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 37 it should still work. Sounds as though he is embarrassed. He might have wanted to have just sex with you but since it did not work he is not going to persue you again. It has nothing to do with you not being attractive enough because most guys can do a door knob. He sounds like he was just wanting a one night stand and that was it. If he wants you more then he would persue you. Let it go.
2007-10-15 11:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may no longer be ashamed hon. a lot of human beings have executed the comparable as you. Even me! My wager is that he feels embarrased becasue he could no longer get it up. He could experience he has some "explaining to do" and it feels so undesirable to him, that he might particularly no longer say something. there became into no longer something you probably did to offer him reason to stay remote from you, do please do no longer blame your self for the selections he's making. i understand what it feels like, feeling rejected. yet in actual actuality, you probably did no longer do something to deserve rejection or perhaps experience badly approximately. somewhat frankly, i think of his suggestions-set stinks and that i think God is protecting you from this loser. He could have began out as a advantageous guy yet seem at him now. He did no longer get his way, and so now he's appearing like a spoiled brat by utilising treating you like shi*. is this this form of guy you will possibly desire to become in contact with? you will locate he has suggestions-set issues so thank goodness you found out early on. In a fashion that's a blessing. Please don't be embarrased. Scre* him! (no pun meant). you're good individual and it has no longer something to do with him. i'm able to permit you already know're a good individual via fact which you have a heart. It exhibits. permit this loser locate somebody like him!
2016-10-07 00:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by gisriel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 23, and you wanna settle for someone who's about to hit mid-life crisis (and seemingly might already have)????
You have the WHOLE fishbowl at your fingertips, Girl!
Find a young one with the same interests!
That way you don't have to see the dark side of the hill for a while!
2007-10-15 12:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he was embarassed by not being able to get it up. Show an interest in him when you are sober and see what happens.
2007-10-15 11:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by iceemama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is blowing you off because he failed to perform for a young nubile 23 year old
and that is tough for his ego to live down
37 year old dream of banging away at a hot 23 year old
and for him to blow that
he be a while before he tries picking up any young hotties
2007-10-15 11:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the question is here, but you should go for it. Just call him and let him know you want to get to know him better.
2007-10-15 11:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he was looking for a life long commitment with someone who gets piss asss drunk and spreads her legs for some old dude who cant get it up.
You sound like once classy lady.
2007-10-15 12:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋