so the girl im dating isnt a virgin and i am , im 1 year older than her and i feel weird about it anyone else in this situation? how do you feel about it?
2007-10-15 11:17:53 · 6 answers · asked by Whitefalcon684 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's good to lose your virginity to someone with some experience. I did and it was easier and better than my friends who gave it up to virgins.
I've been with a guy who was a virgin and I wasn't. It was great, I loved the feeling of teaching him what to do...think he liked it as well.
Just relax and enjoy. Don't worry.
2007-10-15 11:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by munchkin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a old man and even i dont think to highly of it.....heres my problem..i figure if they have already been around alot.....chances are they will continue to do so....the factor of a potatoe chip comes to mind no one can eat just one....my concern is if they already didnt care nor respect themselves before....will they respect themselfes and you ???my worry is your just be another in the pool of feel goods.....and you giving your all only to have it wasted and taken away by someone who doesnt appreciate it enough to even wait for it to be special and with one they care for......does that pretty much sum it up for you ???
2007-10-15 11:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very weird. I dealt with the same thing. If you marry her, it will always be weird.
You will always be picturing what happened. ALWAYS.
Personally I think it is very unhealty for virgin males to marry non-virgin females.
2007-10-15 11:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by dynastronii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not in the situation but you shouldn't feel weird, from a girl we like to know that our guy hasn't slept around
2007-10-15 11:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by sillyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's deffinately not wierd. Just because she's not, doesn't mean she'll pressure you. Maybe it was a mistake in her past, but dating a non-virgin is not wierd at all.
2007-10-15 11:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by xdani.elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation, and it really didn't bother me at all, except before we did anything i made him get checked..... we're still together.... so it worked out ok
2007-10-15 11:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋