Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

I know divorce cost money. But I would like to know if someone had to let a person go and forget about the money they owe you. My ex has some screws missing in her head. I loaned her money, no papers signed but I can prove it in court. Now I can't stop thinking on her kids, while she in bars on weekedays and weekends, I feel like a hunter about to hunt a deer while is with her little deer next to her. None of them (kids) have heard about me, I was just a boyfriend of mom. But it's giving me a hard work to let the money go because of all I worked for that money (for what I can save per month, is a 1 year saving - not work, just saving of what I put on a side). My concern is if you let this kind of things go or you keep remembering. I know I have a winning case in court, but what did you end up doing?. Any advice?

2007-10-15 14:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 14:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom has been on her own doing her best to raise four kids with her minium wage job since my dad was sent to prison. We were getting state aide until I became old enough to get a job and help with the family expenses. I'm 20 now with a kid of my own and I'm going to school and working a manager job that pays me more than my mom's job pays her. I want to move out in the next year or two and have started putting money away for it but its getting harder and harder to keep up with all the expenses and I find myself dipping into that more and more to keep up with bills. I have offered to help my mom go back to school so she can make a better living but she is reluctant because she thinks she is too old and feels has no drive to want to do more. Things are getting more expensive these days and I can't get my own family into our own place while spending so much of my money supporting my mom, my brothers, and sisters. I want a place of my own but I don't want to leave my mom hanging.

2007-10-15 14:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by mellowyellow311727 2 in Friends

My manager at work has been a little inappropriate with me at work as of lately. It's nothing drastic, but he will stare at my breasts or touch me in awkward ways or make unprofessional comments about my appearance. I'm not sure If I should notify someone about this or not. I'm a single mother of a 4 year old and I don't know how this would affect her if I should notify someone and the issue escalates into a big to do. I love my job, but my boss really makes me uncomfortable and I don't want him to think this is okay or for the problem to grow.

2007-10-15 14:41:09 · 22 answers · asked by Mariel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I told a my friend to tell a guy I like him and I'm so nervous to find out what she says. I don't want my friendship with the guy to get ruined and weird

What should I do?

2007-10-15 14:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my frend is going to the dance with a guy who doesnt even like her! she asked him & he sayd yes so he wouldnt hurt her feelings! (he told me & other people this ) shes one of my closest frends & i want to tell her now before she REALLY gets hurt! but how do i tell her?

2007-10-15 14:39:22 · 3 answers · asked by cameron c 2 in Friends

This just goes to show that women are so complex that even the smartest man on the planet cannot figure them out. And you women get mad when the average joe has trouble understanding you.

2007-10-15 14:38:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 14:35:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if i left him a business card of where i work with the words,

"can't get you out of my head..come in for a sandwich sometime"



is this inappropriate?

(lol...sigh)

2007-10-15 14:34:38 · 3 answers · asked by CuriousKat 1 in Singles & Dating

a guy (Ron) i used to like that also liked me, recently got back with his ex. i havent spoken to him in a month but a few weeks ago he texted me asking if i liked this other guy. well actually i got that text from my cousins cell phone but my cuz told me it was ron who texted it to me. ron has also called me from a restricted # multiple times. now i heard from my cuz that he's single but i still didnt text ron. so a few minutes ago he texted me saying hey whats up. should i respond? how long should i wait till i do? or what should i say to him?

2007-10-15 14:34:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl in my grade (10) and she acts different when i'm there and her friends are than when it's just me and my friends. when she wasn't with her friends she was so sweet to me and my friends. but i'm invisible when she's with her friends. she also told some confidential secrets to people and lied to one of my best friends. all she knows about me is who i wanna kiss, how far i've gone and that i have my period. can she use these against me? why is she like this?

2007-10-15 14:34:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I stay at home...I clean and take care of my two little girls, but my husband is always gone. When I tell him about it he tells me it is all in my head. We dont have alot of time to talk but I just wonder if it is normal to be scared to leave. We have a good life except that he is never here. We have a roof over our heads. We always have food to eat and a little extra sometimes. I almost feel like it would be selfish of me to leave when nothing is really wrong. He isnt here and when I tell him he just iqnores it. I really dont get a brake and planned on putting the girls in day care for 2 days for about 2 hours to just get enough time to do the little things I dont really get to do. I think I am scared because I know it will be hard to leave and have to go to work everyday and put the girls in daycare everyday. Also is this normal?? Do other women feel this way???

2007-10-15 14:33:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Either it always had been this way or it just me and my generation. I felt that men at 40ties in my generation are not as committed, mature, and responsible. Men in their 40ties now just wanted to have fun but no responsibilities... After all relationships are more than just having fun, won't you think? Would 40ties and up give me your opinions? Thanks.

2007-10-15 14:33:13 · 14 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

when a mother stays home with the kids? Should he help when he is home, or should it still be solely mom's job?

2007-10-15 14:31:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 14:31:19 · 15 answers · asked by mcdonaldsnuggetaustin 4 in Singles & Dating

Things have never been good in our two years of marriage, but recently my wife has started saying things like "I don't think its going to work out." I got into her email account and from what I can tell she has been talking to an old boyfriend for a couple weeks now via email and on the phone. I think she might be planning on meeting him one of the days that I am out of town. What should I do?

2007-10-15 14:30:15 · 49 answers · asked by Ben 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What I've notice is that tons of people get divorces these days, but many of them get a divorce for really dumb reasons and for things that can be worked out. God doesn't want us wasting our lives away getting divorces with our spouses, when even some of the hardest things we can work out. I want to know why some of you are going to get a divorce, and do you truly think that this is the best way to resolve the situation that you're in with your spouse. Thanks to all of those that share with me their personal lives!

2007-10-15 14:28:53 · 9 answers · asked by Aneres 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so there's this girl at my school, and me and her have been on and off again friends cos basically sometimes i can't stand her costant gossiping (and mostly its about me.)
normally i put up with her, smooth things over and stuff it down deep, but this is the LAST FREAKING STRAW.
she told everyone in the school (AGAIN) that i liked some guy i don't even know. turns out he has a girlfriend, so now i have ms. catty on my back constantly stalking me to make sure i'm not stealing her man. i'm trying to witness to this one girl who's new, and basically it's like this is making me look horrible. this combined with all the other things she's said about me, makes me look like a ttl slut. as a super-duper-plus-plus, she says it RIGHT in front of the guy i actually DO like, and he hasn't talked to me since. idk what to do with her!

2007-10-15 14:27:46 · 7 answers · asked by sammilovesyooou<3 2 in Friends

well it all started out by accident when she was on his sn on accident and we started talking. then we got like really close and started to hang out and such. my best friend isnt much of a fan of us talking. but i know she likes me because of her actions and everyone has told me. we are like a match, and even everyone of her and my friends have said it. but i dont think he will like let it happen. how do i talk to him about it to convince him to let it happen?

2007-10-15 14:24:35 · 4 answers · asked by jameson 2 in Singles & Dating

Scenario: Husband and wife, husband has best mate. Best mate is either on the phone to hubby or at their house. They have been friends for years. Now husband has suggested, best mate moves in with them and rent bungalow rear of property. Wife has reservations as husband is not the same when mate around.
Doesn't want to cause problems between friends but how do you draw the line, when there appears to be no reason why not...Hmmm

2007-10-15 14:23:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i see this girl wearing really good shoes but i dont know her so what should i say

2007-10-15 14:23:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How is it that no matter how right a decision is, it still tears at your heart, making you feel so terrible,like you've betrayed your own flesh and blood? This feeling inside, the emptiness of my heart, how can I fill the void? Companionship is all that i need, but at the same time, the one thing I cannot find. To simply hold someone and be held in return, what makes that such a complicated thing? How can I trust myself in a situation where I know I am subject to get hurt? How do I close my heart to how I feel

2007-10-15 14:21:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. we have watched movies alone, she came to my soccer games. she gets upset if we cannot hang out or somethin comes up when if she cannot hang out with me. Last year she came to my formal as my date. she had a lot of fun. she is in college herself. she always takes off of work whenever i come up to visit her, and after work she will hang out with me while im there. she was pissed this summer that we didnt get a chance to hang out a lot like she wanted us to. whenever she is upset or has a problem she would call me. we talk whenever were on aim all the time. we both have recently talked about startin to date. I would like to date her and make her my gf. does she like me? what should i do? what should i say to her?

2007-10-15 14:21:36 · 17 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 14:20:19 · 4 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

The situation is this: We live together. The initial understanding was that we were going to have at lease one child together. (He already has a daughter by another woman.) After almost one year of living together he says that he's sorry but he doesn't want to bring another child into this world. He did this knowing that I may leave. This man is not only the man I love and my finance but he is my partner. I don't know if I should settle and never have a child of my own or leave him and risk never having a partner or love like this again.

2007-10-15 14:19:55 · 18 answers · asked by xandra242002 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 14:15:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, well i had a boyfriend from April and we broke up in August. We didnt even like offically break up, one day i called him and some girl answered his phone but i didnt say anything i just hung up. I checked my phone and it was the right number. Then the next time we saw each other it was like we were strangers. I feel really bad because i think about all our good times and i dont wanna let go. He likes to flirt with a lot of other girls now, but i dont know what to do. Im kinda hurt.

2007-10-15 14:14:54 · 39 answers · asked by Shanelle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 14:11:53 · 9 answers · asked by Lilly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Theirs a girl I have been dating for about 8 months now, the only problem is I have only seen her a total of 4 weeks since Im in the military and can only see her on when im on leave. I've known her for about 3 years now and she is a wonderful person. We have been talking about getting married when I come home again in december. This way she can move down here and the military will pay for our apartment and she can go to school while I finish off my enlistment. I have 21 months left. Should I marry this girl who I have a long distance relationship with?

2007-10-15 14:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by sk8ter2005 1 in Marriage & Divorce

omg, this guy was like such a perv. we were in gym for my class today, and well i was changing and he came in, i was like get out pervert! (i were in r underwear and bras) he wouldn't leave until i was screaming and the teacher came in but then he was like gone. he doesn't go to school with him.( hes in high school, and i'm in middle school) in the afternoon when i was walking home, he was coming up too me and was like u have such a hot body and was trying to touch my butt and put his arms around me. omg does he want some or something?
p.s hes my brothers friend

2007-10-15 14:05:48 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating