Ok, well i had a boyfriend from April and we broke up in August. We didnt even like offically break up, one day i called him and some girl answered his phone but i didnt say anything i just hung up. I checked my phone and it was the right number. Then the next time we saw each other it was like we were strangers. I feel really bad because i think about all our good times and i dont wanna let go. He likes to flirt with a lot of other girls now, but i dont know what to do. Im kinda hurt.
2007-10-15 14:14:54 · 39 answers · asked by Shanelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should've talked to him after "she" answered the phone ... some girls like to be mean and answer phones, he may of been embarrassed or he may of wanted you to stop talking to him over it because he wanted to end it ... it's hard to say ... some guys are spineless.
2007-10-15 14:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you're feeling is completely normal. Most probably because you guys didn't have a clean break up and officially break it off. If you think he's mature, then why don't you find a time to talk to him about how you feel about this whole situation. You probably will not get back together with him, but you guys can sort out the differences together and this will help you better to move on. Good luck!
2007-10-15 14:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that when a girl answered his phone it might of been one of his friends. But if he dosen't have much friends that are girls and normally come over u know that u made the right choice of breaking up with him. I had a g/f that broke up with me too. So stay strong there are a lot of fish in the sea
2007-10-15 14:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this sounds a lot like my story..
Well as hard as it is, you're going to have to give up someday.
He's hurting you, and it's not doing you any good. You're not happy, so why bother carrying feelings for him?
I know it would hurt, but it would hurt more to hold on. Trust me, I know from experience...
And good things never last forever. You should cherish the memories, bury them in your heart and move on.
Plus the fact that he's a player would only hurt you more.
He's not worthy, so go find happiness somewhere else.
2007-10-15 14:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by rijii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** that loser, he's not even worth a minute of your thoughts, he's just a 2 timing chavinistic pig, he's **** on the ground and isn't worth any decent girls' time and I bet you that you're not the only girl he did this to and it's gonna happen to that girl who answered the phone, if it hasn't already.
just rememer this when you see him, he may seem like something hot now, but things come around magnified,so while you moved on with your life long ago with a career or even a husband.he's gonna be some washed up loser, one of those guys with the shirt buttoned down half way, showing his bushy chest and gold chain, try to hit on the young chicks at the club, but just goes home with only his hand lol
and that's if he's lucky, there's plenty of guys out there better than him, just think about them instead when he comes to mind.
2007-10-15 14:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being hurt is normal, but you need to find a way to come to terms with the fact that he did break up with you, he just handled it really badly. That doesn't make him a bad person, but he should have at least had the guts to tell you in person. He probably will regret someday that he was so clumsy about how he broke up. But he's not coming back. You are now free to date other people.
2007-10-15 14:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should move on.
because if he flirts with other girls after u broke up then its obvious there will be complications between u two later on.
its hard to let go but its also difficult not to cry for every moment you spent with him. u deserve someone who can stay with u no matter what happens. and dont rest until u find that someone.
good luck =)
2007-10-15 14:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You deserve to have someone who treats you with respect and what he did was NOT respectful. If you chase after him, it will only get worse because he will only see you as someone who doesn't want to be respected. Keep the good things close to your heart, whether he knows it or not he gave you those and it's your own personal secret. Take it with you and keep going. Find someone more worthy and deserving of what you have to offer, someone who wants what you have to offer and will give in return!
2007-10-15 14:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shanelle...you say that "We're not" in love. That means both of you! I know it must have been a shock to you to have another girl, although you don't really know who she is, answer the telephone. The next time you saw each other he probably vibed on your coolness. Thank your lucky stars for the good times and let go...for both of you!
2007-10-15 14:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Chris B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal to feel the way you do, when you're dating someone they almost become part of you and of course you had some good times together. It sounds from your post like you know he's not the best guy for you to be with, you're just missing the good times. That's totally normal and you'll find someone great soon enough!! :)
2007-10-15 14:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by style_republic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋