Scenario: Husband and wife, husband has best mate. Best mate is either on the phone to hubby or at their house. They have been friends for years. Now husband has suggested, best mate moves in with them and rent bungalow rear of property. Wife has reservations as husband is not the same when mate around.
Doesn't want to cause problems between friends but how do you draw the line, when there appears to be no reason why not...Hmmm
2007-10-15 14:23:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him that he can marry his friend!!! Rent the movie "You, Me and Dupree" and see all the potential problems of this arrangement!
2007-10-15 14:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by itsallgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the hubby if he would mind if your mother comes to live with you two permanently (it really is the same thing).
If he gets his, then you get yours.
Make it a condition and see how quick he gets over that idea.
You really don't want Heckle and Jeckyl living together on-site. At least make one have to walk a couple of blocks.
Better than that, introduce your hubby's mate to some really nice girls and see if some romance doesn't cool his ardor for hanging out with your husband. Every time the friend comes over, you make sure one of your single female friends is there too.
2007-10-15 14:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you should have drwn the line when he asked to move in
PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN.
2007-10-15 14:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋