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Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

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My parents are really controlling and they think the world revolves around them. "Talking It out" is something not in their vocabulary. Its like i'm living in the 1900s in a dictatorship. no, it wsa even better in 1900s.

If i moved out, i could easily pay for my rent and skul with no trouble.

2007-10-15 15:33:54 · 5 answers · asked by tilanget 1 in Family

My cousin and my little sister are constantly trying to aggravate me by making fun of me and being annoying little 10 year olds. i know as a good person i would just ignore them but i think its time to get them back. I dont know how i could trick them into thinking im gone or someone came and kidnapped me. any ideas?

2007-10-15 15:32:25 · 8 answers · asked by ohh babyyy 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I have decided an year ago that we would get married. Now, his parents are forcing us to get married and I would so love to do that this December. I have a 3 week long vacation and Christmas would be so perfect time! So..what is the problem?

My elder sister is going through a rough time and in the conservative family I'm born in, I cannot get married before her. She is now seeing a guy and hopefully things will get good for her. But, I do not know if that will happen before Xmas. His parents have asked me couple of months back..if we atleast wanted to have an engagement party @ Xmas. Things were really bad then and I said no. I wanted to wait out for my sister. Now, i'm going chicken and want my engagement to happen. I have asked my boyfriend if this was still a possibility. He sternly says "NO. IT IS TOO LATE TO ARRANGE EVERYTHING AND INVITE EVERYBODY. " My parents are really worried about my sister and I don't know how to tell them either. Am I just being selfish?

2007-10-15 15:31:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what is the deal with freinds who get obnoxious when you can't spend time ... whatever your reasons are work or health issues .. everyone seems obnoxious demanding of your time ?

is real true freindship about how much time you can spend with someone ?

2007-10-15 15:29:50 · 3 answers · asked by Mildred S 6 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months. I love him and he was the first one to tell me he loved me. He works 80 hrs a week and I work 40, plus I am taking 16 college hours. We try to see each other every night. About 4-5 times in the past 8 months he has said he would call and he never did. I have never doubted his faithfulness although one time about 5 months ago he did "peck" another girl on the cheek/neck and begged to get back with me after I had thrown a drink in his face. We have had some really hard times, such as his ex always bothering us. He has a really violent temper and has thrown and broken items before. We haven't fought in a long time, but I am so scared it could happen again. He gets mad if I say I'm scared it could happen again.

Am I wrong to feel this way, what should I do?

Thanks!

2007-10-15 15:29:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a wonderful woman that I want to spend the rest of my life with but her ex was unfaithful and she has children which are her first priority and I am totally understanding of that.

2007-10-15 15:26:51 · 33 answers · asked by mikemja316 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If I went out with a guy for a long time, and I loved him, but I didn't have sex with them, how would that make you feel? If you loved me back.

2007-10-15 15:22:30 · 2 answers · asked by Kt Press 1 in Singles & Dating

my son is going through a time that he is so disrespectful and although he is still getting good grades how did he go into be a sweet young man into a mouthy disrespectful one

2007-10-15 15:19:36 · 11 answers · asked by kelly m 1 in Family

2007-10-15 15:18:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2+ years and I have never been this confused about something in my life. I always seem to come last, and we have a son together now so u would think that would change but it hasn't. He still lives at hm. with his mom and he is 23 y/o, his preg. sis who is in her mid 30's also lives there too but that's another story. My problem is that it's never 50/50, I 've always gone above and beyond wheter I was sick, preg. or just didn't feel like doing anything and he still takes better care of them than he does me. As of right now his mom is driving his new car which he got just oveer a yr. ago, he is now in one of his older cars that doesn't work so well which is why he got the car in the 1st place. Anyway he is also still paying the car payment and ins. on both cars and just got her tag without any help from her. This was supposed to temp. and she's been driving it for more than 6 months. She and his sis treat him like he's their man rather than

2007-10-15 15:17:14 · 2 answers · asked by Lil.Mans.Ma07 2 in Singles & Dating

There are some women on here that have avatar names such as, His_Wifey, or JasonsWife, my all time favorite ArmyWIFE or some other crap about being someones wife. Doesn't that just scream co-dependent, needy, overzealous and can't think for yourself??? At least come up with a creative name and not just label yourself as someone's wife. I'm not a feminist by any means but COME ON.

~It really isn't any of my business what you name yourself on yahoo answers, but I would just LOVE to understand the reason you choose to do this. Please explain it.

2007-10-15 15:13:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 25 y/o, single, no kids. I'm just getting out of a 4yr relationship that's been going bad. (We lived together; I never lived alone and have been living with him for past 3.5 years. He moved out of state recently for work and I stayed here.)
I've recently done somethings I'm not proud of. My friends and I are slipping apart (they're getting married, etc.) and part of me doesn't like/trust some of them entirely anymore.

I feel like I'm in a rut and I would like to move somewhere to get away from it all and start my life new. I've never really been single or experienced what I've wanted to do and I feel like now is the time to do it. I am a bit depressed now but nothing out of the ordinary, I'm just in a rut. I want to change the direction my life is going but I don't know where to start..

Any ideas of somewhere good for singles to relocate?
Any tips on ways for me to start over?
I need to do something for me for a change and just need a nudge in the right direction!

2007-10-15 15:11:17 · 12 answers · asked by cocogirl322 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-15 15:11:16 · 40 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 3 in Singles & Dating

pick one or both =] ( in a guy or girl doesnt matter which one )

2007-10-15 15:11:12 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister is looking at colleges for next year and she got accepted in Pennsylvania where my dad lives. my mom really wants her to stay here in Colorado and is revolving our whole lives around her. im stuck doing most everything around the house and my mom caters to my sisters every want and need before mine. im sick of always being last and think it would be better for me if i lived with my grandparents across town till this whole college thing is settled but i dont know how to tell my mom or my grandparents....anyone have any ideas?

2007-10-15 15:09:23 · 6 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Family

my bf is going through a hard time and has went MIA. i have no clue if he's blowing me off, although he has no reason to, i called him yesterday and heard nothing back. before that i hadn't heard from him in 4 days. I text him an hour ago saying "should i send a search party?" and haven't heard anything. he's 35 yrs. old so i'd hope if he is blowing me off he'd just tell me. his "hard time" has nothing to do with me so i can't wrap my mind around why i'm being blown off. he lives 1/2 hr. from me and has no family around him and just his work friends. we both live by ourselves and had talked about what if something happened to one of us in our homes...no one would know for days maybe weeks. it was kind of a joking conversation but now i'm thinking what IFsomething happened to him and i'm thinking he is blowing me off. how do i find out?i know i could drive up there but what do isay if he's there and well? what do you think?i have a tendency to think way too much,maybe i'm making excuses

2007-10-15 15:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

at school their is a girl that said that she did "stuff" with my cuzin. well now she is claming to be pregnant with his kid. she has been known to lie to get attention. but yet my cuzing is also known to cheat. and as far as i know he is a virgin. she also really likes him but he dosn't want any thing to with her. he has a girlfriend. now her and the girlfriend (who is one of my good friends) are about to get into a fight at school and i don't know what i should do. what can i do?

2007-10-15 15:07:36 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa, Kansas 1 in Friends

ok hear it goes dont make fun please i am 30 years old and am a virgin trying to wait until i am marryed but i dont think i will ever get marryed and have my family like i want i have mixs fellings on if i should have sex or not. part of me wants to but the other part says what will god think about me brakeing my deal to wait until i get marryed what if i get marryed someday but then again what if i dont. i have very bad mixs feeling and i want it to be with someone i love and like and maybe marryed to or dateing. thanks alot for the help i really need the help i got mixs feeling abot it very bad yes sometimes i get to feeling like if i had a bf i would have sex but then i keep thinking about my deal to wait. thanks again for the help means alot to me. part of me is sick of beening a virgin cause every one that knows me always ask when will i do it that i need to do it then my other friends say i am doing right by waiting until i am marryed so part of me wants to do it and get it

2007-10-15 15:07:01 · 2 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Singles & Dating

How do you fight the feeling of jealousy, despair, sadness and that sinking feeling when you see the one that you onced loved be with someone else?

I can't get over it...

2007-10-15 14:59:10 · 1 answers · asked by Caribou2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i broke uo with my bf 2 days ago because he was mean to me and was getting girls # in front of me...and he keeps having his friends bringing me notes from him and when i was walking home from school...he was following me in his car!! and i really dont want to talk to him any more...what do i do?...he keeps sending me e-mails and IM's and now im getting freaked out...i mean..DUDE FOLLOWED ME FROM SCHOOL!!!! im 14 and he is 16(17 l8r this month) and we were togehter for 2 years....but what do i do because he was freaking me out with the whole following me home thing

2007-10-15 14:57:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to turn you on guys?

2007-10-15 14:56:43 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does wearing yoru hair half up and half down turn guys on or isit neutrsal or is it liek abad hair style.
and what does i girl do to subtely turn someone on

2007-10-15 14:56:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Realizing that we all have to invite some people we really don't want to invite to our special day...where do you draw the line?

I have third cousins off in Nowhereland that I'm being told "definitely need to be invited" because they're Family. (Now, I'm not Italian, nor am I in any sort of "Family" if you catch my drift.)

I also have coworkers who assumed they're invited because we spend oh so much time working together (ahem, sarcasm). Now they're talking about coming with their dates and kids and...man...how did that happen? I haven't even sent out save the date cards yet!

So how can I tell these beloved coworkers and relatives who I've never met that they are not invited? And I can't use the excuse of "we're planning a small wedding" or "we have a budget". Word spreads fast with these people, and they already know this isn't the case.

Any ideas for getting the point across without coming across as rude? Brutal honesty works for me :)

2007-10-15 14:55:45 · 11 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

2007-10-15 14:55:28 · 22 answers · asked by Los 2 in Friends

we split up for 2 months because of this and now he is back and even worse. he still isnt working, stays up til 2pm and then goes to bed. he gets up and its time for me to go to bed. he then is on the computer looking at porn and playing poker. He promised hed stop smoking weed but he hasnt. If i say anything i am nagging. he is driving me crazy and i am a fool because i do love him but i am angry. He is 32 and says he needs the pot as medicine yet it keeps him from working b/c he cant pass a drug test to even get a job. when he stops for 1 day he is flying off the walls. I am working my *** off and its pissingme off. any suggestions for this man of mine. am i a nagging witch like he says. I am not happy but i love him and married him and want him. How do i stop letting him bother me ...anyone got any suggestions.

2007-10-15 14:54:20 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and i havent talked about my cellphone in a while i need to upgrade it but how do i convince him to do it today when he comes from work.i have been good lately so how do i do it my grades are good i dont know any ideas.
they also disconnected it omg so mean i cant give number out to guys

2007-10-15 14:52:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am in love with this man because of his personality. Age has nothing to do with it.

2007-10-15 14:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

There are 3 accounts on the desktop: mine, his and our daugher's. His account is password protected, ours are not.
We had an argument and I deleted his password. Yes, it was wrong, but I didn't go into his account.
In retaliation, he password protected our accounts. He says he needs his security and justifies it with me having a laptop.
The fight has long since been over and I still have no access to the desk top. And today, he deleted my and our daughter's accounts. So all the information I had stored on the desktop under my private account is gone. (I had an extensive list of all our movies, their genre, description and rating of all our movies. I did this before I found Y!A :))
We hand built the computer and he paid for most but the 2 media burners, external memory, the mouse, monitor, and 2 printers I paid for.
I have the laptop but I can't print anything or burn the movies I get from netflix.
Any advice would be nice!
yes, I know he's acting like a baby!

2007-10-15 14:47:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been in a relationship with someone for 7 months now.we r from different cultures and at first there were some things that bothered me but now we r going pretty strong.
my parents totally dislike the fact that im dating him and so 2 months ago they introduced me to another guy whoz from my culture and religion.on my parents insistence i talked to this guy a few times and my boyfriend knew about it.the problem is that now this guy wants to marry me and my parents r pressurizing me cuz they think having one culture and religion solves alot of problems.plus this guy is an IT engineer with a 6 digit salary while my boyfriend is still doing his Phd (and Phds dont make alot of money).
I dont know what to do.on one hand I see my parents and understand their point that romance might end soon and then cultural diff make create problems.on the other hand my boyfriend has been talkin about marriage too and I do love him.
WHAT WOULD U DO?

2007-10-15 14:46:41 · 12 answers · asked by kera 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Men think women dont belong in some places so where is a womans place

2007-10-15 14:46:28 · 31 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

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