They say you can tell how a man will treat u by the way he treats his mom....?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2+ years and I have never been this confused about something in my life. I always seem to come last, and we have a son together now so u would think that would change but it hasn't. He still lives at hm. with his mom and he is 23 y/o, his preg. sis who is in her mid 30's also lives there too but that's another story. My problem is that it's never 50/50, I 've always gone above and beyond wheter I was sick, preg. or just didn't feel like doing anything and he still takes better care of them than he does me. As of right now his mom is driving his new car which he got just oveer a yr. ago, he is now in one of his older cars that doesn't work so well which is why he got the car in the 1st place. Anyway he is also still paying the car payment and ins. on both cars and just got her tag without any help from her. This was supposed to temp. and she's been driving it for more than 6 months. She and his sis treat him like he's their man rather than

their bro./son. He gives her money all the time and is constantly running for her, taking her lunch giving her gas money lunch money, he'll give her money intended for one thing and she will end up spending it and then asking for it again. She hasn't tried to look for another car or get her's fixed. They depend on him way too much and as a result of that I feel our relationship has/will suffer. He is always doing for them I can understand helping fam. but this is crossing the line. She takes' him for granted even his own sis told her(their mom) that he is not her man. So what does that tell u and I don't know what to do b/c every time I ask about them and money he asks why am I asking I feel she is slightly taking advantage of him but I know that's a touchy subject. Sorry so long but pls. help????

Answer 1

Yeah, it's true that the way a man treats his mom, is usually an indication of how he's going to treat you, but there's the momma's boy too!

Answer 2

girl lay down the law if he crosses it get out and go fibd your prince charming! don't settle for hot dogs when you can have prime ribs