My parents are really controlling and they think the world revolves around them. "Talking It out" is something not in their vocabulary. Its like i'm living in the 1900s in a dictatorship. no, it wsa even better in 1900s.
If i moved out, i could easily pay for my rent and skul with no trouble.
2007-10-15 15:33:54 · 5 answers · asked by tilanget 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that you should stay with your parents until you're legally old enough to take care of yourself. When I was younger, I couldn't wait to get away from my parents but when I moved in with my boyfriend (who later became my husband), I cried myself to sleep for several weeks because I missed them and didn't like the responsibilities that I had to have.
2007-10-15 15:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jayna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just might be better if you lived under those dictatorial rules. Then you would have a better chance to learn spelling and grammer. Yah, it's true that parents can be a real pain a lot of times. But did you ever think that they are doing these things, because they care for you and love you. They don't want you to get hurt. Nor do they want you to have to pay for your rent and "skul" whatever that is. Just put up with them for a couple years more. It will be to your advantage later on.
2007-10-15 15:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go out on your own. But go out easy. I left home 2 days after high school graduation. I just announced, "I'm out of here!!!" My mother threw away all my stuff - records, yearbooks, pictures, awards, etc, redid my room. When I went back for holidays, there was no place for me to sleep. So shop around and find a place. Then tell them "I feel I am old enough to get my own place...." Or another tactic is "I'm thinking of getting my own place. I'd like your opinion on a couple. Would you come look at them with me?" They can offer opinions on neighborhood, sunny windows, dirty stove, and think they are helping. But don't cut the cord. You will want to go home for holidays. Someday you may want to call your mom and say, "How do you fix that great cherry dessert I always loved?" Good luck.
2007-10-15 15:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because your parents have paid for your education. Remember that you have other things to pay such as gas, electricity, food and other utility costs as well as rent. You also have to find time to keep the house clean. Think how lucky you are. You may think things are horrible now but in retrospect you have a terrific life.
2007-10-15 16:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEN DO IT... move out..you won't regret it!!
2007-10-15 15:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by idgaf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋