ok hear it goes dont make fun please i am 30 years old and am a virgin trying to wait until i am marryed but i dont think i will ever get marryed and have my family like i want i have mixs fellings on if i should have sex or not. part of me wants to but the other part says what will god think about me brakeing my deal to wait until i get marryed what if i get marryed someday but then again what if i dont. i have very bad mixs feeling and i want it to be with someone i love and like and maybe marryed to or dateing. thanks alot for the help i really need the help i got mixs feeling abot it very bad yes sometimes i get to feeling like if i had a bf i would have sex but then i keep thinking about my deal to wait. thanks again for the help means alot to me. part of me is sick of beening a virgin cause every one that knows me always ask when will i do it that i need to do it then my other friends say i am doing right by waiting until i am marryed so part of me wants to do it and get it
2007-10-15 15:07:01 · 2 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
over with the other part dose not want to be 40 or 50 years old and doing it for first time and now that i am 30years old i have been thinking about marryed and kids i want a baby in my 30"s but want to be marryed and in love with a guy that be a good dad and be around but want one while i am young even to have one or two. thanks again for everything. and for at least trying to help means alot to me.
2007-10-15 15:10:56 · update #1
please help sorry if it is to long to read but telling you all how i really feel and why hope it helps again sorry if to long.
2007-10-15 15:12:23 · update #2
yes i know that we were born that way but i dont want to go to hell if i can help it i have been saved and baptist and go to a baptist church.
2007-10-15 15:34:33 · update #3
and i keep thinking about life beening to short dont want to die and not know how makeing love feels like and haveing a baby.
2007-10-15 16:19:56 · update #4
What does He think about that...?
Remember that sex is a thing of 2 persons that give them selfs to each other voluntarly...
Does he want to wait also or not ?
Let you in a little secret, "We, are all sinners since the day we are born"!!.
So you maight want to lose your Vergenety, with the hopes to found a famely, that being Father, Mother and children; remember, that Famely is also a social "Base" in every society.
Yes, have Sex, but dont forget that Gd might have the mein plans for the rest of your life !
Sex is nothing bad.
God gave it to us.
2007-10-15 15:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by thiny72 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes go ahead and do it girl.
2007-10-16 03:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by spiderheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋