i broke uo with my bf 2 days ago because he was mean to me and was getting girls # in front of me...and he keeps having his friends bringing me notes from him and when i was walking home from school...he was following me in his car!! and i really dont want to talk to him any more...what do i do?...he keeps sending me e-mails and IM's and now im getting freaked out...i mean..DUDE FOLLOWED ME FROM SCHOOL!!!! im 14 and he is 16(17 l8r this month) and we were togehter for 2 years....but what do i do because he was freaking me out with the whole following me home thing
2007-10-15 14:57:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First tell your Mother and Father. They'll know what to do next. Tell your Teachers, friends or an older brother if you have one. Even if they seem not to care, if you tell them these kinds of things, you'd be surprised. They'll be the best and fastest help you'll ever get.
2007-10-15 15:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Oliver Natividad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You started going together when you were 12?
I'm sure the dude is just working on getting the idea that his 2 year relationship is over. Two days isn't that long. Are the notes, emails or IM's in any way threatening? Or please take me back type?
Let him know in no uncertain terms that it is over, and why, and that you won't tolerate him following you around. At 14, your parents or his are the best place to turn if he doesn't stop. And you should tell him that.
2007-10-15 15:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by poolplayer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is right. He's stalking and harrasing you. Tell your parents or get a restraining order.
If it's really serious, then cut off all ways of contact. Do not answer his calls, his emails and you can take them to the police if he threatens you physically. Then he can have a case.
Sorry I'm not trying to discourage you or scare you even more.
2007-10-15 15:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not want to but tell your parents or sombody you know that is over the age of 18 and can help oyu.This can lead to something else serious,and you might get hurt in the process for your saftey tell someone that can help you.Before he does something crazy.Hes to old to be following you after it was his fault oyu guys broke up.,He didnt have any respect so now he can date the girls he was talking to in front of you.Gud luck, and be safe!
2007-10-15 15:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by bananna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him .. I know your scared to have anything to do with him . But you have to let him know, or else he'll follow you around more .
Ask him what his deal is, and tell him your getting weirded out . If he denies that he's following you . Or freaks you out even more like, weird harrasments... then tell him you'll file a report .
PS [this conversation would best be done by fone]
2007-10-15 15:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to him how his actions are making you feel, and say that if it doens't stop you will talk to the police. Hopefully this will make him realise what he is doing is wrong. He may have now just realised what he has lost and doesn't know how to deal with his feelings. Give it a go and see what happens.
2007-10-15 15:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like him are jerks and they need to learn a lesson. don't be scared to call a police officer on him if you have to. If you let this behavior from him go on without any actions on your side it may get worse. I am glad that you broke it off when you did. once an abuser always an abuser. Please don't let this go on forever from him do something about it before it gets to late to do so.
2007-10-15 15:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by honeydoes706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 07:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by fenner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents and a teacher at your school. if someone is following you, you should tell someone. if you let this continue, he could end up hurting you.
2007-10-15 15:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly call the police, get a restraining order before he does something
2007-10-15 15:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋