Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

get it on with you and makes passes at you and tries to grab at you, would you tell her? I've told him to stop, but since we socialize together (with my husband) he always seems to seek me out. Other people have commented on the way he looks at me. His wife is sooo in love with him and although they have problems with their marriage, she worships the ground he walks on and wants to keep the marriage together. My husband, on the other hand sees nothing wrong with it and encourages his "buddy" to grab me.

2007-10-15 20:08:30 · 22 answers · asked by Azul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a devoted relationship right now, and I'm the happiest I've been in a long time. The problem is, even though they know I'm in a relationship, I have a lot of guys and men of various ages at work and at school that are attracted to me, and I hate it. I don't do anything to attract their attention and everyone knows I'm in a relationship, but they seem to disregard the fact and continue to try anyway, like it's a game. I'm only 17, and most of the time it's significantly older men in their mid-twenties. This is really bothering both my boyfriend and I, and I want it to stop for both our sakes. Any advice?

2007-10-15 20:05:01 · 38 answers · asked by emilyqun 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 20:04:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 20:03:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't like to brag..But women can be players to if they been hurt in past.And I was cheated in past so I have done it to ALL men been with me..":Don't hate the player hate the game"I'm in 5 yr relationship have a kid..Had 4 or 5 affairs..I used them all..I got rid of them before they wanted to marry me..Now I have a man on other county who think's i'm single mother..But not! Listen..I have loved but I lost so--I think is best I can do..vengence..on MEN! and all the wrong--world made into me.I'm not crazy or insane..call me whatever you want..But who know's I might have done your man too.lol..I have told my current boyfriend-That I wanted to leave him and I did for" 2 WEEKS and had my intense affair"than he took me back" Now-I have other one demanding to visit his country and I want or what i do not want is "Player haters" replying to this..Or I will REPORT you"ONLY PLAYERS REPLY"--What do I do to keep my game with out getting caught? Should I go to this other man's country or stay?

2007-10-15 19:51:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are you glad that it happened the way it did?

2007-10-15 19:37:45 · 26 answers · asked by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5 in Weddings

Im not great at makng friends and i have been talking since aug with this guy in work (who has a gf) anyway how can i tell if he wants to be my friend or is being nice. He invited me to lunch the once so i returned the favour which he accepted. He invited me to look at his new flat which i did. The thing is he isnt great on contact. As i dont see him a great deal as we work in diff departments i email him now and again but alot of the time its me contacting him. He sounds happy enough to talk and seems interested. He has emailed me first once/twice to see if im alright but i wish he would contact me a bit more or ask me to lunch again without me asking him. I know its probs his way. I emailed him on friday bout something and he didnt reply but did come down to my department and asked for me to appologise for not replying which was nice as otherwise i wouldve thought he was funny

2007-10-15 19:32:21 · 18 answers · asked by chinwag 1 in Friends

If I say....
"Do you believe in love at first sight?"

2007-10-15 19:29:34 · 9 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

So ok your in class and theres this boy who is sitting next to you. He says hi, you don't know him that well but see him around campus a lot and in class. He then introduces himself and asks you how you like the class so far. He also asks how you like the campus environment.

This boy and you have been in class for 8 weeks but haven't spoken. He dresses pretty fancy, smells nice, well groomed, clean, and kinda cute. If this all happened to you, how would you react? Would you be very happy or just plain creep out? Thanks for reading.

2007-10-15 19:28:51 · 14 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

What is your favorite thing about being with a girl instead of a guy? Me personally, girls just know how to pleasure u more than guys do. Guys are just in it to pleasure themselves. Plus girls are more creative in the bedroom, they are more willing to experiment with new and unusal things. Also girls have all the fun female body parts and can have the guy part as well just by putting on a toy.

2007-10-15 19:13:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a bisexual girl and was wondering if a guy would date a bisexual girl and NOT want a threesome I want a one on one love with another person and not intrested in that kinda stuff .

2007-10-15 19:07:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i have 8 bridesmaids and I would like to get them something different as gifts. I don't want to do jewelry or a purse or a tote bag. Any ideas? I'm open to suggestions!

2007-10-15 19:06:01 · 17 answers · asked by Michy 3 in Weddings

2007-10-15 19:05:57 · 23 answers · asked by Joyce1 1 in Friends

A buddy of mine calls his girlfriend "Cookie". Fine. The problem is he uses that name when she's not even AROUND! We're both guys and we'll be hanging out and he'll say things like "I gotta go give my Cookie a call".

After years of this I finally told him it makes me uncomfortable and when he's talking to me he should use her real name and he should save "Cookie" for when they're together. He exploded and was really offended even though I brought it up politely.

Do you all agree with me or am I out of line? What can I do to stop hearing this obnoxious pet name all the time?!

2007-10-15 19:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering everyone's opinion.

2007-10-15 19:01:42 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Plain Nikki 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay i have this neighbor who is mariied to this guy who is barely around to say hi to. This lady goes in and out all of the time so my boyfriend and i always see her. If its a time when she's with her husband, her husband just goes inside and doesnt even look at me.If she is by herself most usually, she comes up to us and she stares into my boyfriends eyes like "wow" and my boyfriend says hi even though hers doesnt. and she always says hi to him. then when my boyfriend is outside smoking he see's them going out for dinner and the husband says "hey, whats up" cause he knows im not around. she must be having something going on with him but its really weird and i just want to know how to get her husbands attention to me as to what to wear and say and stuff like that. i just want to see her get jealous. i think she's only happy cause she has a man who doesnt care for even looking my way and she has that power to do that to me cause my man isnt like that and says hi to anybody.

2007-10-15 19:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by tinkerbell88 2 in Singles & Dating

Almost all males (not all) often court female and when we female gives our "loving yes" to the man, the next thing they would ask is sex, when we give them the sex they want just count a days or so, they just leave you broken harted.

2007-10-15 19:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by freya vida 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 19:00:27 · 3 answers · asked by I'm co0ol 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old college student going for an accounting degree. Yesterday, i got in a huge fight with my father which totally made me want to end my life. I have never had a good relationship with him and yesterday everything just blew up, ending with me having a bruise and him wanting me out of the house. I hate him so much that i wish i died to never see him again. I cant afford to move out because of my car and paying for school. My mom wants me stay because she pays for the house and my dad never worked and has no money. Its hard to talk to someone about my problems because i have very few friends. I have never had a girlfriend, never been on a date. I feel really lonely and lost. I am having money problems because of school and my car. I have very low self esteem because i think i am ugly, but now its like nothing matters to me anymore. I hate my life and wonder if i should keep going. Ending my life will put me out of my misery.

2007-10-15 18:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by datzme240 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So here's is my thought process. I find it quite difficult to establish a serious relationship with older women. I'm an attractive 21y/o male that has an eye for attractive older women (25-35)

***NOTE: I'm not saying mid-20s is old in any way, just that majority of women in mid-20s have mature mind-set, which is what I like.***

The trouble is not approaching them but it's holding a conversation. The intro is easy but when it comes to "what do you do for a living?" they seem to lose interests so easily. Why is this? Apparently financial stability plays a larger role than expected, am I not right?

What I'm asking is ladies, what is a guy who knows what he wants w/ good looks and a great personality to do, to have a serious relationship with an older woman if it's not money?

Insights greatly appreciated and perhaps even take this into further discussion..

2007-10-15 18:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by pmy2k4 1 in Singles & Dating

We broke up for 3 years now, she's in a current relationship same as I do.After we broke up, we remained casual friends. But last week, I text her just to say how was she, its been 3 years since we havent talk. Yet, she replied and told me not to reply anymore cause she doesnt want to hurt her boyfriend and dont want to be in trouble. then the rumor comes out that I am bitter. Is she mad at me?

2007-10-15 18:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and-You look into thing's to much")sound's like my man..is tripin what does he mean..like is he even serious about me..He said that after mention "m"word"Marriage"
and he said he can move in relationship fast or slow or get married if he wanted to in ONE YEAR..What does that mean? frigging men play head games..and Y!A keeps taking points of for asking questions omg..what gives?

2007-10-15 18:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lets see if I can make this as easy to understand as possible. I was in a very serious relationship for about a year and a half. We even had a kid together. I recently broke up with him because he would not stop lieing to me. Now, the person who he thinks to be his best friend is really into me. Problem is this guy does not consider him to be his best friend. We both have liked each other for awhile now and we want to get together. Would this make me a bad person??

2007-10-15 18:50:20 · 7 answers · asked by kittie1057 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for about two years now. We love each other very much and get along very well, except that he has jealous tendencies that cause bumps in our relationship. Which of course upset me. It has been an on going battle with my bf over my two very close guy friends. He very much dislikes that i talk to them and suspects occasionally that i cheat on him with them! Its not true, and just when i thought that we have talked things over and they will be better, that i have convinced him that i have not cheated on him, he gets jealous again. I understand he is a bit insecure and needs reassurance. He doesn't trust me tho, and I'm trying my best to make him see that he can trust me when hes never even had any reason not to trust me.These guys are just my close friends that I've known for awhile, one is gay (which my boyfriend doesn't believe) and both are from different countries. I don't know what to do. All i do is talk to my guy friends on the phone yet my bf cant stand it.

2007-10-15 18:49:41 · 4 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 18:48:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our neighbor is having multiple babies.(ivf)she aborted one and the rest are at risk of being handicapped or even death.
(this is a lady who would if looks could kill would kill everyone who was walking by ,exiting or entering the abortion clinic by our work.)it is worth it to her but the babies will suffer long term.her husband has changed so much he has cheated on her after 3 miscarriages ever since she has been trying on her own.we never could find the right time to ever tell her,when she has so many things going on all the time.

2007-10-15 18:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by STALKER BLOCK 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you turn a hook up (of 2 times -- everything but sex and oral sex) into a relationship?? do you stop hooking up with him and make him earn it? or will this throw him off guard and make him mad and stop liking you?

2007-10-15 18:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has been almost 6 years since we saw each other, then we bumped into each other at a local bar.We spent the night together(not sexually), and she told me she was sorry and would like another chance.she seemed sincere this time.i told her I am currently seeing someone (although I'm not sure where this relationship is headed). We have had lunch together on a few occassions since then, and I sometimes stop in to see her at work on my way home (she is an exotic dancer).I think I'm still attracted to her, but not sure if we should get back together.Should I forget about her and move on or should I give her one more chance?

2007-10-15 18:41:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is going to start around noon or 1.
I was thinking this:

12:00 - Set-up
12:30 - Guests arrive
1:20 - lunch is served
2:00 - toasts
2:15 - dessert
2:30 - Any extra thank yous chatting etc
3:00 Done.

Does that seem about right? I mean if it is done before 3pm that is fine, I just want to make sure I rent enough time at the facility.

2007-10-15 18:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-15 18:40:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships