our neighbor is having multiple babies.(ivf)she aborted one and the rest are at risk of being handicapped or even death.
(this is a lady who would if looks could kill would kill everyone who was walking by ,exiting or entering the abortion clinic by our work.)it is worth it to her but the babies will suffer long term.her husband has changed so much he has cheated on her after 3 miscarriages ever since she has been trying on her own.we never could find the right time to ever tell her,when she has so many things going on all the time.
2007-10-15 18:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by STALKER BLOCK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
would you want to know or hear it from friends?her sister knows too.
2007-10-15 18:47:54 · update #1
i have for past 3 years and treat him like i always have for her sake.
2007-10-15 18:59:39 · update #2
i know i wouldn't want to be around when she DOES find out.... i wouldnt say anything because she has her own issues to deal with. as unstable as this situation is, u never know. right now for her, no news is good news..............
they Both seem like they need help, because its nothing more than a destructive pattern feeding off another.
she has to stop making these babies if she knows she has a hard time carrying full term babies. this is destroying her body, her image, And her relationship. she obviously is not stable, and needs support and a backhand even.....j/k
he, on the other hand, is not a man. he shouldve stuck by her side and let her know of other options besides trying to conceive every "horny night". he has alot of nerve going elsewhere and turning his back on the woman hes suppose to honor and uphold thru hell and high-waters. so he needs a slap in the face, And a reality check.
2007-10-15 19:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave it alone! Perhaps the look on her face is from carrying the burden of a cheating husband! And now expecting multiples without the support of her spouse. She's got enough problems without neighbors making her even more upset.
Maybe you could carry a casserole over and tell her you'll remember her and the babies in your prayers. Then go home before you blab.
2007-10-16 02:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Stay well away, you'll be the one who gets the blame in the end, so best to let them sort out their own lives, just you worry about your own.
2007-10-16 09:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
best thing to do is stay out of it.. and thats what she would tell you. you might have morels to what you believe but she has the right to do what she will.. lets hope its all for the best for the babies.. but still again its no ones business..
2007-10-16 01:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
sure i think it would be comforting to know that someone else knows and that u have their support. she sounds very sexy and she has to make her own choices. its a shame what he's doing. good luck to her and i will keep her in my prayers
2007-10-16 01:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's really not for anyone to say or discuss, but if anyone were to do it... it would need to be her sister, not the neighbor.
2007-10-16 01:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by shellj_foxy 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Honey stay out of it .
2007-10-16 01:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by gloria b 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
leave it alone
2007-10-16 02:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by troop there it is 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
MYOB
2007-10-16 02:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋