okay i have this neighbor who is mariied to this guy who is barely around to say hi to. This lady goes in and out all of the time so my boyfriend and i always see her. If its a time when she's with her husband, her husband just goes inside and doesnt even look at me.If she is by herself most usually, she comes up to us and she stares into my boyfriends eyes like "wow" and my boyfriend says hi even though hers doesnt. and she always says hi to him. then when my boyfriend is outside smoking he see's them going out for dinner and the husband says "hey, whats up" cause he knows im not around. she must be having something going on with him but its really weird and i just want to know how to get her husbands attention to me as to what to wear and say and stuff like that. i just want to see her get jealous. i think she's only happy cause she has a man who doesnt care for even looking my way and she has that power to do that to me cause my man isnt like that and says hi to anybody.
2007-10-15 19:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by tinkerbell88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
throw ur self at him. or even better tell ur man to ignore her completely. if he's ur man he will do it
2007-10-15 19:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Santiago Numez 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Listen to yourself! You don't need to make her jealous... she is obviously getting off of getting you jealous! why are you making things harder on yourself? You obviously have the boyfriend, not her. You are paranoid and self conscious because you feel as though this woman has something you don't. Step back, relax and stop thinking the whole world is out to get you. If you really can't stand her flirting, than get close with your boyfriend when she is around. Show some PDAs (public displays of affection) but don't go over the top.
If she doesn't care about her husband enough to flirt with other men than why would she care when you start flirting with hers? Not only will that fuel her fire to go after your man, but how will your bf feel? Not very good.
So before you make this worse than it already seems to be... just take abreather... and think clearly.
P.S try saying nice things to the husband for once! SMILE!
2007-10-15 19:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by aleasha_Sam01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that, if your bf really cares for you, you can prove yourself the woman you should be, that is full of dignity and self-respect. You deserve that, and I think if you were any less than that, your bf would be living net door with Miss Low Self Esteem. Anyone who has a man and is all up in your man's business is not only tacky and rude, but sad and insecure. I say ignore her and SHOW your man(and I mean SHOW IT HONEY!) who the winner is in this "contest." She's not even in the same league with you. Leave her alone, she'll eventually dig her own grave.
2007-10-15 19:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her husband. If I were you, I'd tell my boyfriend my concerns and ask him to put his arm around me or grab my hand or something whenever she comes over to say "hi." This way, she'll see that YOU'RE the one he's interested in, not her. Sounds like she thinks she's "all that" and maybe this will bring her down a notch or two if she sees him being close to you whenever she's around. Tell him to stroke your hair while she's yapping. lol
2007-10-15 19:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Linnie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer desire to sound impolite yet i think of in the event that they have been "detached" to you "romantically" it purely potential that they do no longer seem to have an interest and can't locate yet otherwise of expressing this than being somewhat chilly. Btw you are able to desire to no longer confond being compassionate of affectionate and being in love.Cancers are often compassionate confident yet that does no longer mean that they'll date you because of the fact of that high quality .besides, I doubt you would be happy in case you knew that somebody is datingyou purely because of the fact they pity you yet because of the fact they love you! solid luck ,there remains some fishes in the sea ;)
2016-12-18 08:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
Its easy to get his attention.
Waer a miniskirt.. with thongs inside and bend down when he enters and call him bending down to say hi...
Next time bend down and call him to help you with something like can you help me find my ring ..i just dropped it somewhere here and cant find it.... look into his eyes deeply and give him a smile when he finds it..
Next time wear a jeans but a low cut top..the kind that shows your cleavage when you bend down...
Keep on changing attires but always with something diff to show....
Actually if you had sent your picture I would have had a better idea what is your best feature..your legs ..your breast... your hands ..your eyes ..what..?
Anyways one word of caution.... this could lead to severe disturbances in your life.. so think about it before you start it.
All the best
2007-10-15 19:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did not read the long question but caught the drift. Why hang around with her? Do not waste your time on vengeance on her. You and your husband would benefit by staying around her. If your husband is not faithful, confront him and do not let him make you feel guilty for his sinful ways.
2007-10-15 19:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK ummm I'm not much of an expert but all i can say is let her be and that you shouldn't go low like her so yeah! Just leave it as is besides you live next to them god knows what rumors can be coming around!
2007-10-15 19:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by li_da_mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her husband isn't the talkative type...You boyfriend is just being neighborly...It will look bad if you try to get the neighbors husband attention.
2007-10-15 19:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree tell yo MAN too ignore the lady so that she knows that hes yours and she doesnt need to be looking at him!
2007-10-15 19:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? If she's turning your man on that the problem is him not her. It's kinda hard to tell from your question. Afterall she isn't doing anything wrong!
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I haven't read anything from you that shows she is showing off in front of your man or trying to come on to him. NOTHING!
2007-10-15 19:05:51 · answer #11 · answered by hoppykit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋