Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

ok so my parents say im being rude for going to my room when i get home and not talking to them about my day and stuff like that but i always do they just ignore me or interrupt me and change the subject. And my mom asks me for money to pay bills and i always give it to her but she hides it form my dad. She doesnt want him to find out about them. but after i loan them so much i just want to save it for a house and college cuz they have already spent my college money that i had in a savings account. i think enough is enough. wat should i do????

2007-10-15 16:47:48 · 3 answers · asked by huskerdude55 1 in Family

theres this guy in my school and his a junior.......i really like him......and didnt really talk to him

one of my guy friends said that he talked to him and he thinks i am pretty......but he wount talk to me......hes like shy or something too

sooo my question is can u help me start talking to him....so he wount just ignore me or something and acctually talk to me about something interesting

2007-10-15 16:46:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am proud of my breasts and if I want to wear a shirt with a little show of cleavage, people stare... I like showing off the two major attributes of my body that I like, my legs and breasts to avoid the one attribute of my body that is not all that, you know women, the baby belly factor, the belly roll. But I'm not talking about not only men starring, but women as well. What the Hell is that???

2007-10-15 16:45:19 · 30 answers · asked by Alantin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 16:42:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i met this guy in college we have eachother for math class. thats how we met. and out of no where he waited for me after class and asked for my #. He said he'll need it if ever he;s absent and will ask me for assgnments dat he missed.

so after he got my number he called me life everyday saying stuff lyk:

-wana come to a beach barty 2nyt.
-u knw any shops were i can get a cheap peircing?
-u wana go out..its my friends bday party.


SO MY QUESTION IS ...IS HE JUST WANT A FRIENDS TO HANGOUT WITH OR IS IT MORE THAN THAT??

2007-10-15 16:36:18 · 4 answers · asked by db 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi all. Okay so i dont know what is wrong w me. I am going to the doctors at the end of the week so.. but i was just wondering what u thought. So the past month and a half ive been having on and off pains in my lower abdomen. Ive also been having some back aches and been sick and tired alot. I dont know what is wrong w me. Over the summer i did have sex w someone (the last time was in aug.) and i was only w him. We did have unprotected sex a few times (i know bad). So in sept i was worried i was preg. I took a few tests (all came up neg) but i never got a period. (which is strange 4 me). in the beginning of oct. (this month) i got a period for a few days. the thing is im still having little pains, sick, and tired. So im not sure what is wrong! is it possible to be pregnant and get a period? Im not sure! Its not an std (hes only been w me) so i dont know. what do u think. thankyou very much!!

2007-10-15 16:29:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is constantly lying and never gets yelled at but its constantly me that gets slapped in my face. My brother does alot of things but lie about them. It's crazy,how all the time i try to make my mother happy i fail i just give up! it's bad enough she thinks i'm crazy but now its worse cause she slaps me for what reason?

My two oldest brothers dropped out of high school and was never around in the first place and she really thinks i'm going to be like them. It hurts me alot i've tried so hard and she thinks i'm like my abusive, drug addictive...daddy. I've never hit anyone or taken drugs.

I think i'm just going to leave.

2007-10-15 16:22:58 · 11 answers · asked by nicole_sweetie2000 1 in Family

My fiancee and I became engaged February 7th of this year. I felt like I had kinda forced him into it-we had been dating for over two years and were living together. I kept mentioning marriage, and about how I wanted to become engaged. Finally he popped the question. The problem is now, he says he wants to get married, but won't decide on a date. He wants to get married outside at his parents' house (beautiful landscaped yard) but it being Washington, that is almost impossible until late July so that you can gaurantee a rain-free day. He refuses to get married anywhere else other than his parents' place. He also says he wants to have a stable well paying so he can support us. I understand this, but can't he find a job while we're married? I can't wait to become married, and the thought of waiting almost another year kills me! I really want to call him my husband and am not worried about his paycheck. What do you think about it? Is he afraid of commitment...or being reasonable?

2007-10-15 16:22:32 · 12 answers · asked by Happy. Finally. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't want any lame answers with stupid info...
thanks.
<3

2007-10-15 16:21:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i never met my granfather & my uncle [his son ]asked me if i love him i ddnt say anything....he felt bad but wat can i do

2007-10-15 16:21:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Serious answers only. Thanks! :)

2007-10-15 16:17:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend jeff are ready to have sex, were both virgins and stuff, and we wanna be protected, so i was just wondering which condoms really work the best??? my mom tried to freak me out last night, and she was like, "condoms dont work" and all this BS, and it kinda did freak me out, but i really love jeff and we really want to do this, so yeah, what condoms work the best and have a tendency to not break??

2007-10-15 16:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Three weeks ago I met this girl at the school studying outside the school library and I went talking to her for an hour and when she left she gave me her e-mail address.
And then on a Thursday the following week I went at the library to see her and talk to her again.We talked for about 20 minutes and then she told me that she had to study so I left.
And then on a Tuesday I went back again to talk to her to ask her out and she told me that she is busy studying and also busy with work and she doesn't know so I left.

This week I'm going at the library to see this girl again and talk to her.

Any advise how to make this girl being interested in me or show her that I'm interested in her, make friends with her, and ask her out again?

2007-10-15 16:12:58 · 1 answers · asked by Marius O 1 in Singles & Dating

I was seeing this guy and i thought we had a great connection. I told him that due to my religious beliefs I won't be having sex until marriage. He is 22 and I'm 21. He seemed upset that we couldn't have a relationship but said that he would not be able to have one with a major part of the intimacy not there. Is this an indication that he wasn't keen enough to begin with or should I give him time to come around to the idea?

2007-10-15 16:10:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together 2 years and will get married, God has brought us together undoubtedly but I'm just asking for opinions.

2007-10-15 16:09:49 · 31 answers · asked by guitar_girl1988 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm giving one of my guy friends a cookie tomorrow, and he always gets cookies from me so I call him my cookie monster.

Anyway, I want to write him a note when I give him the cookie this time.... something like "Hey my little cookie monster.... I hope you like this cookie." or "hey mister cookie monster, you keep stealing my cookies....blah blah"

As you can see I seriously need HELP! I like this guy by the way, I want it to be something cute. Please help! :)

2007-10-15 16:05:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In other words, is it possible to love a person although that person has never loved you back or never will either ?

2007-10-15 16:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a new model ,I am the youngest model in our company

I like this job,I can wear many fashion clothes to show me everyday and I can make money to support myself and my father. My father and mother divorced 15 years ago,I always live with him.

Do you think I look nice ?

http://www.in-brands.com/Simplified/ProductList.asp?SortID=3&SortPath=0,3,

But now I meet a big problem,my boss asked me to make love with him,of course I can't ,what should I do?

2007-10-15 16:02:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Like if you were a preppy person would you date a skater?

Personally I don't steryotype like that..I'd date any kind of person....

2007-10-15 16:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by Far Beyond Driven 7 in Singles & Dating

I was at balet dancing and having fun and dancing around with my team and everybodys parents were watching exept mine because i said go away your too embarrising and im crying because I wish i never said that and right now shes watching tv with my dad having fun what can i do to feel better?

2007-10-15 16:01:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i need a nice poem to say for my oldest sister funeral can someone please help thank you

2007-10-15 15:57:13 · 5 answers · asked by dafinessricans 1 in Friends

If so do they have sales? Right now they have no shipping. My wedding is in June but I think I might get them now. But looking around that would be the best deal right now.

2007-10-15 15:46:45 · 5 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

So let jus put it this way his dad's a @$$ & abuses him. The other day he ran away but my mom being a teacher had to call the cops cus if she didnt she could lose her job. This kid is smart. He gets stright A's, but his dad beats him and broke his gutiar, shaved his head,& he ranway to my house. He ended up going bac to his house cus the police said so but child services came and his dad lied and said he would spank him, he didnt say nething bout a belt. His dad wont take him to school,he lives 5 1/2 miles away 1h and 30 min walk.The teachers got got him a bus pass,with his MOMS permission. We went on a field trip this past friday, wich we dont need a parents signature. His dad and mom came in yelled @ our princpal for "kidnapping him" and yelled @ the teacher for getting him a but pass. His dad make him walk to school,&watches him do it.He got pulled out of our school which is 2 ranked in P.A and is giong to a not so good school.can he runaway&live@a friends house w/o it beng illgal!?

2007-10-15 15:46:12 · 2 answers · asked by mimi 2 in Friends

I received a call the other night from a long time family friend. He was a military brat, and his mother and my mother were best friends. When we were little our mothers always joked that we would one day marry. When he was about five they moved. But over the years we have always kept in touch, and he always seemed to be in love with me, but I was never interested and never took his advances seriously. My mother passed away six years ago, but he and his mother and I have always remained in contact. Now last year about this time after coming out of horrible marriage I realized something...sometimes love can be starring you right in the face. So I immediately went after him. But the timing was bad, he was involved. Shortly there after, we got back in touch and his father died. But then its like he disappeared off of the face of the earth...Now this surprise phone call, and now he's singing my tune, that love has always been starring him in the face. Friends or Lovers? Let me know!

2007-10-15 15:45:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 15:40:08 · 5 answers · asked by Vannili 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 15:38:33 · 35 answers · asked by caliaz 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have decided an year ago that we would get married. Now, his parents are forcing us to get married and I would so love to do that this December. I have a 3 week long vacation and Christmas would be so perfect time! So..what is the problem?

My elder sister is going through a rough time and in the conservative family I'm born in, I cannot get married before her. She is now seeing a guy and hopefully things will get good for her. But, I do not know if that will happen before Xmas. His parents have asked me couple of months back..if we atleast wanted to have an engagement party @ Xmas. Things were really bad then and I said no. I wanted to wait out for my sister. Now, i'm going chicken and want my engagement to happen. I have asked my boyfriend if this was still a possibility. He sternly says "NO. IT IS TOO LATE TO ARRANGE EVERYTHING AND INVITE EVERYBODY. " My parents are really worried about my sister and I don't know how to tell them either. Am I just being selfish?

2007-10-15 15:37:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-15 15:36:09 · 14 answers · asked by Nia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not sure if im having an orgasam or stopping to soon? I have a toy since i never had one during sex. I start playing with it, then i start feeling contraction like feelings. I like it but they are very strong and i stop. Is that the orgasam? Or am I stopping to soon?

2007-10-15 15:35:04 · 29 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

him out to the street, his mother wants nothing to do with him either. Dad lives in Burlington, Iowa & mom in OK. We brought him into our home, he was here for 5 days before his dad even reported him missing, mind you not a run away yet....when he arrived the 1st nite it was late so we all sat in the morning & talked, we called the local police department, the County Sheriff's office so we were on the up & up....we went & did the things we needed to do such as school, etc. to get him ready & now his dad has decided he is going before the judge to have a warrant issued for a run away...my question is this he turned 16 on 7-25....he says he will not go back to his dad's he will run hard & far away...his dad we learned has kicked him out 6 -7 times each time other than the last he has slept under bridges or wherever he could find & food he found whatever way he could.......how old does a child have to be to be able to say I refuse to live with you or come home? Please We need help here!!

2007-10-15 15:34:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family