theres this guy in my school and his a junior.......i really like him......and didnt really talk to him
one of my guy friends said that he talked to him and he thinks i am pretty......but he wount talk to me......hes like shy or something too
sooo my question is can u help me start talking to him....so he wount just ignore me or something and acctually talk to me about something interesting
2007-10-15 16:46:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about you go to him, and say “hi” and just ask him to go for a walk with you, or maybe to get some food at the lunch break or something.
What to talk? Anything, what classes you are in, what sports you like, TV shows, movies, weather, school classes, tests, cars, travel, vacation, clothes, anything!
The key here is for you to be yourself. Let him see who you really are. Don’t try to be different. Just be as you are when you talk to your friends. And always smile and look directly to his eyes.
Also don’t be afraid to touch him. If you touch his hands, maybe a hand shake, or handing him something, don’t be afraid, and smile while you look at him. It will make him feel comfortable with you, and will help loose the “ice” for the both of you.
In no time you both will be laughing about how shy you two were about meeting each other.
And if you do like him a lot, you can ask him out. Just don’t be 100% direct, so he doesn’t get scared or something. Be simple, and ask him to go out with you and your friends to watch a movie, and to bring friends if he like too. From there is up to you two to “click” and start getting interested on each other.
Don’t worry about what to talk, it will come out as it happens. Either form a friend, or any of you will say something about whatever you are doing, and you will go from there. Let it be natural.
Good luck, and have fun!
2007-10-15 16:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and be friendly to him.
2007-10-15 16:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks you're hot as hell.... Watch 40 yr. old virgin and you'll understand!!! Haha...
2007-10-15 16:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Moua Y 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋