Why do people stare when I show a little cleavage???

Question

I am proud of my breasts and if I want to wear a shirt with a little show of cleavage, people stare... I like showing off the two major attributes of my body that I like, my legs and breasts to avoid the one attribute of my body that is not all that, you know women, the baby belly factor, the belly roll. But I'm not talking about not only men starring, but women as well. What the Hell is that???

Answer 1

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Guys are visual. Cleavage speaks louder than words.LOL

Answer 2

People perhaps stare because they are embarrassed for you. You may be proud of what others find bizarre. I see women and men who must believe they have something to show off (breasts, legs, biceps, etc.) and wonder why. Have you ever seen a couple making out and stared--not because it was beautiful, but because it was tasteless and boring. That's why they say "Get a room!" or in the case of cleavage, thigh or muscles, "Cover it up!" Modesty may be in order. Women staring may be a clue that your revealing clothing is not wise. Confide in a trusted friend and do not be offended if the friend says you ought to cover up a little (or a lot).

Answer 3

You might try an experiment.
What would happen if you spent a week, 7 days straight, wearing nothing provocative--no cleavage, etc. And just played LIFE AS YOU as a regular beautiful gal.
You MIGHT just notice a different reaction from everyone, they might start to look at your eyes and mouth and communicate with you more...in a human way, and more like a friend.
Good Luck!
Hope things work out for you.
Sometimes the cleavage thing says things you don't really mean, certainly not to all who see you.
Folks might listen to you better without the "view!"

Answer 4

Because they know thats what you want, and the women stare probably because they figure you may have low self esteem, if the attributes are really that great then maybe you should leave something to the imagination, when you are showing off your attributes you don't leave anything to the imagination. People see you for who you are and that is someone with NOTHING TO HIDE.

Answer 5

Women I know are much more ready to comment on other women positively IE. "Look, isn't she gorgeous?" You seldom here guys say "Look isn't he handsome". Girls look at girls and are often not afraid to admit others are attractive.

As I guy, I have to say "Vive la difference!". I'm so glad their are people like you who make the world a more enjoyable visual experience. It's not about just a flirting glance, sometimes its just plain simple eye candy. Human nature can be presented tastefully.

If you feel good showing off your best attributes and you enjoy it, keep it up. If the women bother you, maybe you don't enjoy it as much as you think. Try to remember that they may be acknowledging to themselves that you look good.

Hope this helps!

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Answer 6

wow this is a tough question, not sure if ur showing to much or not enough. maybe they just like what they are looking at. and size dosen't matter drowsee, i think its just more of the women being sexy to me than size, theres some real nice small ones out there, i like.

Answer 7

My only guess is jealousy from women? Or they're judging you? Men, the answer is obvious. We like breasts. Any guy who says he won't look is a huge closet pervert. But we're supposed to be like ninjas and sneak a peek.

Answer 8

92%...are lost in their memory thinking, "woooh! look a that bust! so damn hot. " And if it were a woman, she'd continue thinking, "I'd love mine that way." Then she'd go ahead & start comparing her's with yours. Some are bound to get jealous.
And if it were a guy, he'd continue thinking, "Looo...! I'd love to touch those! They are just sensational" Some are bound to get horny

8%...might be thinking: "Why is this girl showing such an ugly bust?
You know, sometimes what you think is best is not always best to every one.

Answer 9

Women can appreciate firm pouty boobs as well. Listen, girls: you say it's your right to wear what you want - that's true. But DO NOT be offended/upset when you get attention back!! The clothes designers make these garments as "plummage" - like birds showing their feathers - it's done to (sexually) attract a mate.......

Answer 10

you just said it: you like to show them off...... in order to show them off- they'd have to be out there to be looked at, right? showing off means you want the attention- you want to "show off" what you have- so I'm not quite sure why the staring bothers you- it's obviously what you're going for......

If you wore a beautiful necklace you just bought because you wanted to "show it off"- wouldn't that specifically mean that you want people to notice it? So it shouldn't bother you when they do.......

when women check it out-take it as a compliment- chicks check out chicks all the time- doesnt make us lesbians necessarily- I think we are competitive- and like to see how we match up to other women- we know women are pretty- we check it out...... even if we don't always admit it......