Im not sure if im having an orgasam or stopping to soon? I have a toy since i never had one during sex. I start playing with it, then i start feeling contraction like feelings. I like it but they are very strong and i stop. Is that the orgasam? Or am I stopping to soon?
2007-10-15 15:35:04 · 29 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like im just stopping to soon....not sure why i do. no it doesnt hurt
2007-10-15 15:42:42 · update #1
Thank you...And for the few of the RUDE people. I got the toy becasue i was having problems getting there. Im 27 and have had sex with 3 guys.
2007-10-15 15:46:19 · update #2
You are having an orgasm... just not getting the full potential of them. Try doing that for longer and seeing what happens.
2007-10-15 15:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sideway Sunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Well if you are having the throbbing feelings, you are very close but you really should feel some sort of release. Before release, breathing should be heavy but controllable. After release, you should have less control of your breathing, heavier, more panting type of breathes. Practice with your toys and mate try different positions, techniques, depths, and speeds. Using your finger reach inside, curl finger feel the rough area, use that spot as a secondary contact as you are having those throbbing feelings. Your primary contact should either be your clit or your g-spot (spot inside the opening usually an inch to four inches deep) Yes it does move for some women. (Hence the trying different positions) Good Luck ! HAVE FUN ! :D DO NOT THINK ABOUT THE ORGASM It will be there.
2007-10-15 15:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by BrAnDon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bit unsure- are you stopping playing with your toy? or stopping the sensation? If your stopping with your toy- girlfriend ,your cutting yourself way too short... DON"T STOP, silly gurl.. but if the sensation/contractions are stopping, is it slowly, all of a sudden? Than maybe your not quite far enough, but if your warm, languid & relaxed, awrright...take a break & play again girlfriend- that's the 'one-up' we have over the men! Enjoy.
2007-10-15 15:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by gappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its getting "strong" your probably stopping too soon. Try to resemble it to the climax of a book. There is just one highest point of a story at a time. A lot of times there are many high points but there is only one highest.
2007-10-15 15:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by cmg_266 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer something is misguided with you. some females have on no account had an orgasm so which you're forward already. it takes time and prepare to have a vaginal orgasm. clitoral stimulation is the main undemanding way females have orgasm and for many its the only way. sooner or later issues will click while having intercourse and you would be wanting one without masturbating and it's always super. basically savour what you may gain now - dont hardship because it is going to in all possibility make it harder - basically play with your self greater an dmore and et your bf to connect in and function as many as you may. it's going to take place sometime yet purely interior the excellent situations with the excellent individual. it wont take place if your laying there having intercourse stressful approximately it. you'dd could desire to be totally engaged interior the form. attempt masturbating on an analogous time as having intercourse to coach your self to orgasm with penetration then masturbate much less and much less leaving it as much as the penis to do the artwork. if it doesnt take place then play away - its relaxing so do it as much as you like there is not any longer something incorrect with it!
2016-11-08 10:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and yes :) Let yourself relax and go with the flow once the contractions start, when you feel they start to subside, don't stop, just slow down or speed up till you get your stamina back up
Good luck and work on it, don't stop, try and keep going
2007-10-15 15:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
souinds like you are stopping too soon. you'll know it when you really have an orgasam!
2007-10-15 15:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ming a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue, so you can answer your own question.
What you are feeling is only the beginning of a wonderful feeling.
So try again, this time finish, you'll know when your done, you'll need a smoke. LOL
2007-10-15 15:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by Randy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya wont know till you keep going and if it gets better you will know it. An "O" is more like a "release' of the blood that has gathered when aroused.
Go for it girl. lol
2007-10-15 15:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by deb2polar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U are stopping too soon. If u have an orgasm, you'll know it. Let it go and get to know your body.
2007-10-15 15:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ayo A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋