ok so my parents say im being rude for going to my room when i get home and not talking to them about my day and stuff like that but i always do they just ignore me or interrupt me and change the subject. And my mom asks me for money to pay bills and i always give it to her but she hides it form my dad. She doesnt want him to find out about them. but after i loan them so much i just want to save it for a house and college cuz they have already spent my college money that i had in a savings account. i think enough is enough. wat should i do????
2007-10-15 16:47:48 · 3 answers · asked by huskerdude55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stop giving them your money, they are the parents and should be able to foot the bills.
If they mention anything about you living under their roof, you go talk to gramma or grampa or any relative that would be glad to have you and see if you can move in then you will not be under their roof.
I always went to my room as well and I didn't mind helping out but I always felt crushed by their demands.
Good Luck
2007-10-15 18:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by NoGood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are living with your parents... move out the minute you are 18 or have graduated high school!
I'm sure you can find a nice little garage apartment or efficiency.
This is about boundaries. You have to draw the line.
Get a bank savings account and have your statements hitting a PO Box.
Next time your mom tries to shake you down, tell her you are sorry but you ran into some unexpected expenses and send her away with a $20 or whatever small cash you have on you.
2007-10-16 00:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to ur parents about it
2007-10-15 23:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋