I was at balet dancing and having fun and dancing around with my team and everybodys parents were watching exept mine because i said go away your too embarrising and im crying because I wish i never said that and right now shes watching tv with my dad having fun what can i do to feel better?
2007-10-15 16:01:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What can you do to feel better???
You should go to her and apologise and let her know how sad and sorry you are to have done such a thing. and you will never do that again.
2007-10-15 16:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by cherry babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,
Know that even though you hurt your mom's feelings and are feeling bad about things that she still loves you and IS hurting. The best way to feel better about yourself is to apologize and try to make amends to her.
Parents are by default embarrassing by nature at times. So are children... Remember that their love for you is central to their being!!! Someday, far from now you will embarrass your children and continue the cycle as well!
Good luck and don't beat yourself up too badly about this. The fact you are feeling guilty shows you are sorry and are a good person! Everyone makes mistakes. it s the ability to make amends is what defines us as human!
2007-10-15 23:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by feliciathefierce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger, I did said something very similar to my mom and felt horrible. The difference is I didn't do anything about it. You can. Try the direct approach and just say you are sorry for what you said earlier. If you don't feel comfortable with that, just hang out with her or ask her to help you with something (even if you don't need help). And don't worry, moms are used to those kinda comments from their kids. But it would be especially nice if you can say you are sorry to her! Good Luck
2007-10-15 23:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel bad. Have you ever thought that MAYBE you embarrass your parents? Apologize for acting like a jerk. Tell her you are sorry and remember the next time you feel like being mean how badly you feel now.
2007-10-15 23:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go in and say...mum i am sorry for what i said...i realise it was wrong to say what i did...that will help you feel better but to be honest i don't think your mum will really be annoyed with you to much...all kids feel embarressed by their parents at some point...it's natural
2007-10-15 23:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by hanz2602 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to apologize to her for what you said and ask her to forgive you. Talk it through with her, Im sure she loves you very much and wants you to be happy
2007-10-15 23:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by debbiedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go apologize to her.
Spend time with her.
Make her feel wanted and needed.
2007-10-15 23:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋