Recently I have found hat my son has been looking a pornography and taking Victoria's Secret catalogues. What consequence if any, should I give him?
2007-10-15 11:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You did not say how old he was and this of course depends on that.
I personally think he is growing up and starting to be curious about women. I think instead of giving him a consequence that you should sit him down and explain why he should not be looking in the first place. Explain the facts of life to him about pregnancy and that there is more then just looking at a woman to understand her. Tell him that she is a human being with feelings and emotions and that her body is a private thing just like his is. As him would he like everyone to look upon him with no clothes on.
2007-10-15 11:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by craft painter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy, he has hormones, and he's exploring his options. Hey, at least he's not getting some poor girl pregnant! I don't think you should punish him... It's natural. Ask your husband what he did back then! I bet he'd say the same. Maybe. Or many other teens back then. You should confront him about it, but be nice and subtle. You don't want to permanently scar him with the mom card! Yeah... So, good luck, and I don't think you should let him see the consequences. At least he's doing that instead of damaging property! Think of how good your son is, not how bad.
2007-10-15 18:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Queen of Angels 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing would just be to let it go. I mean, it would just present an embarrassing situation for both of you. It's normal for teenage guys to be interested in a girl's body (if you don't think so, you obviously have been out of high school for a long time). Guys eyes and girls bodies (especially boobs) just seemed to be magnetically attracted, and I don't think there's anything anyone can do about it. After all, it is what nature intends.
2007-10-15 22:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by EllaBean33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should there be a consequence? It's normal for a Testosterone filled boy to do. In fact I would be concerned if he didn't.
2007-10-15 18:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may want to sit down with him explain about a boys body /it is normal for a boy to explore his body also what age is he?is there a dad/older brother to help him?there are many places on the net to look for info to help him-.for you just tell him to try to stop.and understand this is a fayz that boys go thought.try it see what hapens.?
2007-10-15 19:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by bananaboy_69692003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing AT ALL. let him do that. at least he isnt on DRUGs or something u should be Concerned about. it IS very normal for teenage boys to do that,if not that something might be wrong. Leave him to his pictures it is very normal to go and do that!!!! it is a safe way anyway!!
2007-10-15 19:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sxyblonde S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of all of it, and any that YOU may have.Remember, monkey see monkey do, monkey will do what parents do.
Tell him you do not want him to look at it anymore because it teaches him to think of girls in an unrealistic way and makes him look at them as sex toys(even though they present themselves as sex toys for use and being discarded like used toilet paper).Teach him that women are human beings and not sex toys.
2007-10-15 18:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about this issue and let him know how you feel about porn and the catalogs. He is a teenager and these things are normal.
2007-10-15 18:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋