I have the BIGGEST crush on a junior and i am a freshmen. i have never spoke to him b4 but he is really hot and i hear he is super nice and he is also a great student. but everytime he is somewhere i am always behind him or close by him so i can get his attention i always smile at him. but today at lunch i was sitting at the table and he was sitting in front of me, and he kept on looking at me and i smiled at him a little bit. we made eye contact with each other at least 5 times. and then his friends started looking back at me. do u think he thinks i am stalking him or do u think he has gotten the idea i like him cuz whenever he is around me i cant stop smiling and blushing?? please tell me what u think....cuz i am really afraid he thinks i stalk him and i dont i just like looking at him.....
2007-10-15 11:05:39 · 19 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think he knows you like him just back off a little bit or try talking to him watch him from afar and wave to him if you see him in the hall ways and hopefully he'll come around I think he mite like you too oh lala if hes supernice he prolly be really nice to you dont be afraid and if his friends kept looking at you its a sign hes been talking about you oh lala again
well theres your answer hope it works out
2007-10-15 11:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow lol. You got to get his attention in a way that doesn't involve talking. I say this because you don't sound like that type of girl to try to talk to a guy you just met. Maybe bump him when you pass him, or hit his books out his hand when you pass him. When you do this say " sorry" firstly, then say this" I seen you looking at me in the cafeteria".It's a nice ice breaker to start your conversation with, not to mention it will give a comedic start; everyone likes funny. And try to do it when their is not that many people around; that seems to take the pressure off.
I hope you make a move, you just have to, no matter what. You will always regret seeing if you had a chance. Not a good feeling to settle down with. If you get turned down it will be ok; it's life. A fair share of girls and guys are going through what you are going through.
And if he isn't the guy, it's ok you will find your guy.
Good luck
2007-10-15 11:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by Luvon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him to think you are stalking him just say hi. Let him know you have a voice in there and that you can do more than just stare and blush. If he says hi with a huge smile chances are you've got his attention, so be yourself, don't be too shy.
2007-10-15 11:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude.. Don't go EVERYWHERE with him just to let him know u like him. He's probably got the point by now. Just be casual about it. If you are everwhere he goes than, YEAH it will seem like your stalking him!!
My advise... Try talking to one of his friends first. Ask them if he has a girlfriend or if he is interested in anyone. If his friend says he knows about u and is interested than u can make your move..
Right him a letter. But DONT profess your undying love for him just yet. Just say that u think he's cute and seems like a nice guy and you'd like to get to know him better. Leave your number or email address..
If your very brave go up to him in person. Just introduce yourself and say that you've seen him around and that he looks familiar...( this always works!) tell him he looks like this guy u met somewhere ask him his name. And just start talking. Tell him that you'd like to get to know him better, and give him your phone number or ask him for his...
Be confident! Guys can tell when a girl is confident about herself. And they like that!
2007-10-15 11:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by smokefreediva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more than likely he's realized that you like him since you're making it so obvious. he probably likes you too or he likes the fact that you like him. you should try to talk him one day while you're following him. lol. and dont get nervous, because if he didnt like you then he probably would not be looking at you so often at lunch.
it's harder than it sounds to talk to a guy, but if you dont, are you going to wait for him? what if he's nervous too? someone has to make the first move.
good luck!
2007-10-15 11:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you like him. If he doesn't feel the same way then move on. It won't be the end of the world if he doesn't feel the same way. Sometimes boys can be hard to read in situations like these, so your best bet would be to just tell him how you feel.
2007-10-15 11:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just walk up to him and introduce myself. Say hi. And then go from there. If you continue the behavior you mentioned in your question, Yeah, he probably thinks you stalking him...But if you go up to him and say hi, then he knows that you are normal and just interested in him.
2007-10-15 11:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeaaah i think hes getting the hint you like him.Just strike up a convo and see where things go. Dont be shy
2007-10-15 11:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he thinks you're stalking him.
;)
Trust me, if he did, he wouldn't be making eye contact with you, he'd be trying to get away. If his friends kept looking at you, maybe he told them he thinks you're cute?
:)
2007-10-15 11:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Domo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, make conversation and stop starring. that will just make him think you're a stalker. Just be nice and friendly. Let your personality shine through
2007-10-15 11:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by ninacoqueta0817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋