This is so ridiculous my girlfriend is always taking care of her mother. She will come maybe 2 nights a week on a good week. Should I be mad? sometimes I feel bad but honestly her mom has been bad to her and she don't deserve her to take care of her. All of her other kids want to put her in a home.
2007-10-15 11:44:55 · 11 answers · asked by sheila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are you serious? I thought you were a friend.
No you shouldn't be mad. She on the other hand has every right to be.
This is the relationship between a mother and daughter, not a trip to the Mall.
2007-10-15 12:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Your girlfriend just wants to take care of her mother so she doesn't get sicker. You are being selfish. Everybody deserves somebody to take care of them when they're sick.Even you. The world doesn't revolve around you. Her mother is in a bad condition right now and all you can think about is yourself?! How selfish! Wouldn't you want your daughter or son to be there for you when you are old and sick?I thought so. Oh yeah,thats right, feel bad...
2007-10-15 11:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She cares for her mom no matter how mean her mom was too her.You sound really selfish maybe you can go to her house some time and help take care of her mom and hang out.And try not to feel so selfish.If your mom was sick don't you think you would be by her side all the time.You need to remember that we don't live forever.
2007-10-15 12:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jenise B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband are no longer even divorced yet and already have extra in individuals into the combination. your little ones have not even had the possibility to recover from coping with the wear up of their family contributors and you and your husband selfishly throw individuals at them as though they have not any evaluations or thoughts. easily, you could desire to verify how incorrect it rather is. in case you prefer thus far, do no longer convey your dates residing house and don't introduce them on your little ones till you and him are intense a pair of destiny mutually. i've got faith so undesirable on your little ones. different than that, new girlfriends and boyfriends comes with the territory of divorce.
2016-10-09 07:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm...........NO!!! If she has a sick mother, no matter how bad the mother has treated her, she will have the instinct to take care of her. It works both ways really. Think of all the mothers out there who know their kid is bad and yet will always go out of their way to bail him/her out of the problems they dig themselves into. Let HER make that choice, but don't force her into it, k? Your job is to be understanding, trust me, it will make you look good in the end! =D
2007-10-15 12:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Hexx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you remember that , your girlfriend's mother also is your mother, You are selfish. If i would be you, I shall help my girlfriend to take care of our mother. One guy on interracialmatch.com told me a truth that is You should respect your friend or wife's relatives ,and then, you shall get along with them.
2007-10-17 01:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit of a spoiled and self centered selfish brat aren't you? You don't OWN your girlfriend and if I were here you would have been kicked to the curb a long time ago...you're obviously not mature enough to even DATE let alone have a girlfriend.
2007-10-15 14:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember what goes around comes around. One day you'll need to be taken care of and your child may want to take care of you. However your child's partner may give the same advice as you are thinking of right know. Good luck!!!
2007-10-15 11:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Michael K 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is her mom dying with cancer or something?
If it is something like that quit being so selfish.See if you can do something to help out.
How would you like to be "put in a home" and left to die and visited once or twice a week?If youre lucky.
2007-10-15 11:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
Not unless you want to drive her away.
If you care for her at all, you'll be understanding and supportive. Sounds like it's hard on HER.
Oh, right, you don't actually care about her.
I forgot.
2007-10-15 16:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋