My boyfriend and I were very independant when we met 18 months ago. We both lived alone and enjoyed the high life, travelled and partied plenty. We'd both been dating but hadnt met anybody 'special' for 3 years, probably because we'd become so paticular with age/experience. When I met him, he swept me off my feet, however I find that entering into a meaningful relationship and caring about somebody so deeply makes me vunerable. I've found myself becoming jealous at situations I never did before. I also get overly emotional and upset like I have never done before. My vision of the future is us being together. We've both talked seriously of marraige but Im worried that the more I fall in love, the more my feelings will intensify, including the negative emotions that Im experiencing now. I keep telling myself I should just make the most of having somebody special but I didnt realise how intense close relationships can be. He's 40, Im 33 and neither of us have been married before.
2007-10-15
10:51:24
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