Family question?

Question

Ok, it has been said that we have 2 families, the one we are born with and the one we make.

Which would make you sadder, if the family you had died, or the family you made died?

Im not being stupid, Im mearly trying to see how many peoples minds work, please dont say "stupid question" or "Both" or "1" or "2" I want an explination

thanks to the ones who gave an explination

Answer 1

That's a very interesting question, and hard to answer! My first inclination was to say "the one we are born with" - because I have known them longer, and, after all, they are family - always supposed to stand by you, etc. But after thinking about it, I think I would say "the one we make". Because this doesn't just include friends, it also includes my husband and daughter. I can not begin to fathom life without either of them. Truly.

Answer 2

That is a very difficult thing to answer. I would be sad if anyone near me died and I have know way of knowing which would impact me the hardest. I would think my children would be the worst though.

Answer 3

Wow. Um, I guess...the family I had.
You can't ever replace anyone....but I think it'd be worse, because these are the people that raised me.
They took care of me, nurtured me, trained me, you know?
Besides, my best friend is my sister, so she's IN my family!

Answer 4

Depends on the one you loved the most.

Answer 5

The family that I was closest too.

Answer 6

I love them both equally can't say one over the other. They'd both be terribly missed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

ITS NOT EVEN THAT WAY.......BOTH MAKE YOU SAD CAUSE U LOVE BOTH SO DEARLY GEE

Answer 8

ya,just an other stupid kid question #

Answer 9

stupid question both!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!