ok there is this boy in my class his name is kassy bernard. he is so cute and i really like him. i am a plus size girl but i am not that big most pepole say i am not fat. and i dont think he likes fat gurls or big girls. whayt do you think i should do to get himto notice or like me. gimme tips, what to wear?, what to do? do i talk to him?, how to start a comnversation?, how to act around him?
he is really shy and quiet he dosent really speak much english. he is puerto rican . and i am the oppssite i talk sometimes. but i am sorta shy around guys.
HELP PLZ : ) I appreciate it.
xox-Aaliyah
2007-10-15 10:58:47 · 23 answers · asked by Afsoun_Nicole_32907 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
show him my boobs!!!!!1 r uyall serious i am not that supid. shhheeeeeeesh! thanx for all the anwsers i get i am gonna do what yall told me and i really appreciate it. i am gonna go buy some cute outfitts tomarrow. thanx alot yall. Love ya : )
2007-10-15 11:37:09 · update #1
yeah! try to talk to him! try starting off by like asking him for a pencil then saying.. oh i always forget to bring one... and try to start off by having little inoccent converastions until u get to ask him more personal questions like about his family and what not.. then u guys cud take it from there. oh and try to flirt with him but don't over do it
oh and dont show him ur boobs! who know what taht first answer was thinking... sheesh
2007-10-15 11:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by maneenee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a good soak in the hot tub and don't forget to get in and around the back of the ears.
Get yourself cleaned up, get rid of any bad smells or dirt that may be clinging to your body. Your appearance will be an important aspect to attracting this boy. Make sure you look after yourself, have a good scrub now and again and wear the right type of clothing and matching jewelery. How you keep your hair on the top of your head is an important thing too so don't be mean with the shampoo.
2007-10-15 11:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I'd say be yourself. If you're a nice person which i see you are, then be nice to him. Try to help him with things, or just smile and be polite. If he doesn't seem intrested, honey there are more fish in the sea. Don't let a guy mistreat you for what you look like or the way you are. That feels horrible, trust me i know. But just be yourself. And if you can't get him to be yours, just be friends. Guys realize after a while how great you are, and maybe by then you'll still be into him. Just let the time take place
2007-10-15 11:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by ninacoqueta0817 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would make you think he doesn't like big girls? He's Puerto Rican girl! He probably don't care!
Dress cute but not sexy. Whatever you feel most comfortable in will always look the best.
Smile alot, laugh and look like you love life. Guys like girls who are happy and secure. Show interest in his country by asking questions.. Thats a good place to start!
2007-10-15 11:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by qnbee1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't like fat girls or big girls, then don't bother with him. Find a guy that likes you for you, someone who doesn't want you to change.
Dress nicely. Wear clothes that's good for your figure. Try doing something new too.
Since he's shy, he probably rarely starts conversations with girls. So you should strike on up with him. Let him fall in love with your personality. However, don't be too clingy. You can't talk to him 24/7.
2007-10-15 11:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd start with smiles and hellos a couple times this week. Then next week strike up a conversation. Easiest way in is to give a sincere compliment like "I like your shoes" or whatever. Then ask him about something like if he heard that Eric Clapton (put in your favorite band here who is actually coming in concert) is coming to town and is he going to go to the concert or whatever, then ask him what kind of music he listens too, you know...just go with the flow.
2007-10-15 11:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said this: i dont think he likes fat gurls or big girls. So, I would look somewhere else for a boyfriend. Don't try to change his tastes. It won't work. As they say, "There's plenty of other fish in the sea." And plenty that like girls that aren't slim.
2007-10-15 11:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of ALL calm down.....ha ha..anyway..be yourself...if he likes you it will be for you....dont be something your not to impress anyone...Be you...and ask about what he likes or dislikes....have a conversation about whats going on around you at the time....or whats he doing at the time.....but most of all.....just be yourself....and a ( as you say- big gurls ) nothing wrong with that....its who you are..not what size you are.....be YOURSELF.....and Honest...and thats truley what matters most !!
2007-10-15 11:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
show him how kind ur personality is..guys dont fall in love with the girl that has the biggest boobs in the world, or the girl that's got the shiniest longest legs in the world, but the girl who's got the most honest personality in the world.
2007-10-15 11:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey hun..kay so here's what you do. You absolutely must act like yourself. Make simple conversation like "what are you doing this weekend" or "did you see that new movie...." you know, that sort of thing. If you ask him questions like that, he has to answer. Just act like yourself and shine girl! Be funny, make jokes, smile, laugh, I don't think your appearance matters as much as you think it does. Good luck.
2007-10-15 11:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by it'sKIRA 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋