This boy has wanted to go out with me for 2 years. He asks me, i say no. then he'll wait a while then ask again. I told him to 4get about us ever happening he says o.k. a month later hes askin again. I don't want to be rude but hes ugly, and hes mean to alot of other people. What should I do now because No isnt cutting it.
2007-10-15 10:16:24 · 13 answers · asked by daneeneechick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ignore him. I know it sounds mean, but if you don't say anything..Not yes or no, he might forget about you....OR you could introduce him to someone else!
2007-10-15 10:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume that just because he asks you out, he's in love with you.
And do you actually think that being ugly is more of a problem than being mean? For anything more than a short fling, I mean.
2007-10-15 10:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by notmyopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this ugly guy keeps asking me out too. And he knows I have a BF!!!
I think it is disrespectful for a person to push themselves on another when they know you are not interested.
You will have to be firm and tell him no, you do not want to go out with him now or ever and tell him to stop asking.
2007-10-15 10:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by RAVEN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your friend then continue to be as gentle as possible, and be patient because it sounds like he will likely never give up. If he isn't your friend and he really is mean... then I would be more blunt. I wouldn't tell him that he is ugly, I would just tell him that you aren't attracted to him. That is a little more gentle. Just because he is mean, doesn't mean that you should be... Good luck!
2007-10-15 10:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by cari_co26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he ask's you say ok meet me at a certain place and time and DON'T show up , then he will figure it out..Your not being meen your just getting even for all the people he was meen to..
2007-10-15 10:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him like u. what is it hurting honestly? and do u know how bad it has to be hurting him to like u and u be mean to him? everyone has feelings and karma sucks so u should be nice to him and just let him like u its not hurting u and he cant help it that he likes u. i believe in karma and one day ull like a guy and he'll u to forget about you 2 ever happening and ull know how ur makin this kid feel. sorry if i sound mean but so do u.
2007-10-15 10:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this, just tell him what you said to us. That will leave you alone and him to shut up about that.
2007-10-15 10:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vanity, thy name is daneeneechick.
2007-10-15 10:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Pvt. Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have a boyfriend. if not tell him you'll get someone to beat him up if he doesnt leave you alone.
2007-10-15 10:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by wrestling diva!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him to get cosmetic surgery, then you'll reconsider going out with him.
2007-10-15 10:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by ►solo 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋