Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. We have had sex, and I feel comfortable doing things for him (To be frank, i mean giving head and also handj***) Although when I ask him if I would get anything in return, he says he doesnt want to because he thinks womens vaginas are unattractive. I feel rejected because i feel like he was targetting me and he promises me thats it's not me, it's just all women in general that he finds the vagina unattractive and that he's unexperienced at head and using his hand. I was sympathetic and told him I didnt care how experienced he was, and accepted what he said although I felt it very frustrating at times.

Although recently he has told me that he realises that it's unfair for me to be giving him what he wants, and then he doesnt return. So he said he would like to try it. Although whenever we seem to get into the mood of it, he gets really nervous. Is there something wrong with me? Or is he just scared he'll let me down?

2007-10-15 10:15:14 · 10 answers · asked by cosmetic_x 2 in Singles & Dating

is it as simple as more sex or is it something you do out of nature?

is it possible for a woman to provide whatever it is that you get from doing it?

how about porn, i am not against it but i think its something that should be watch together for some kind of stimulation because when a man does it all by himself and then pleases himself, it sounds kinda creepy like someone that watches for some sick twisted pleasure(if you have someone who will have sex with you)

for single men this is ok....

but if i want sex as much as you do, whats the private sessions about? i like porn, i would rather us make our own but if needed, i can watch them with you.

we have a healthy sex life, who still has sex 2x a day after 11 years, we do it all, have all the toys, talk about it all so why does he still take an hour in the bathroom???????

so, is this natural and normal or am i not meeting some kind of standard?

2007-10-15 10:15:14 · 20 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship for 7 years (engaged for 5) and I know the inevitable split is coming. I would prefer to avoid it because I still love him but he isn't trying anymore. I work 6 days a week and go to school 4 days and have limited time to spend together but I always try to make the best of that time...but he isn't. He's out late almost every night, I don't like the friends he hangs out with, he never cares about anything that I do unless it interferes with his plans. We have so much together like bank accounts, pets and other things. Is it time to give up or is there a way that I can snag his *** back to acting like an adult who is in a relationship?

2007-10-15 10:14:35 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so i really like this guy who teaches me one of my lessons. I don't know how old he is but he's unmarried. Unlike other people who have posted questions about student/teacher relationships, i do not love this guy! I jus really enjoy his classes and think he is gorgeous! i hate it when i don't have a lesson for ages and love it when we talk! is this a really bad thing to feel/think? please help me
(ps: im 15, female)

2007-10-15 10:14:30 · 6 answers · asked by butterfly_bell 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that the other person is a home wrecker.

No one ever blames the cheating spouse. Its the home wrecker that apparently held a gun to their head and forced them to sleep with them and call them or whatever.
Or when a marriage is bad and both parties know it and they stay together for religious reasons but sleep with someone else, then that person is a home wrecker. I really dont get it at all.

And YES! I had a cheating husband. I left him. Pure and simple. It was his fault.

2007-10-15 10:13:19 · 31 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not thinking about it...just curious as to what *you* would do.

I personally don't like wearing rings, and I would never wear either an engagement or a wedding ring, but not everyone is like this and lots of men wear rings...so....?

2007-10-15 10:13:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

would you rather have a guy tell you he is excited about you and ask, or just hold you close and go for it?

2007-10-15 10:12:49 · 8 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

We met once before and again yesterday and had a really nice time....ended up going back to my place and fooled around but didnt have sex coz i refused....slept for a while then he left. I feel terrible coz i want him to respect me and now i feel i've ruined all the chances for that..didnt even want to get physical that soon....what should i do? We are both in our 30s so we are mature.

2007-10-15 10:12:18 · 12 answers · asked by Boo 1 in Singles & Dating

jane did not mention the four other children. two other siblings are thinking of buying something else to put on the gravesite. what do you think?

2007-10-15 10:11:28 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny G 3 in Family

2007-10-15 10:11:17 · 4 answers · asked by princesslouey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-15 10:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by spick&span 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 10:10:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friends parents said Im always welcome at their house but I dont think my grandparents are going to let me? They said I could move in with my mom but I dont want to move in with her I want to move in with my best friend. I would pay for my own stuff and everything. But How do I convince my grandparents to let me?

2007-10-15 10:10:29 · 6 answers · asked by ... 5 in Family

I am a girl who loves gym class(im in highschool) except for one problem... a sexist gym teacher. He is failing all of the girls in his class on purpose because he has a theory that girls are weaklings and don't participate in anything( yes he has told us this in those exact words). That may be true for some girls but i always participate in running, sports, etc. He is usually pointing me out and claims that i dont work hard enough, he is often making rude comments towards me as well while he tries to look down my shirt. Many people agree that he is an arrogant man and i think he is a weak one as well for judging girls so harshly and giving boys all the credit even if they are just sleeping on the sidelines of the football field not doing anything. Not to have a negative attitude, but i can already assume i am going to get a C or lower...because thats all i can expect from a sexist jerk like him. So, any suggestions on what i can do to avoid FAILING his class?

2007-10-15 10:08:43 · 11 answers · asked by lhatetrees 3 in Singles & Dating

what should i do my brother is soo mean spits in my face,and hits me alot..

2007-10-15 10:06:53 · 9 answers · asked by Im Jessy, who u'll luv 1 in Family

i dreamed the we were in the hospital and my mom was getthing checked and she was pregnant and she pulled me by my shirt and said remember this date 3/25/2008.
my mom isnt really pregnant & the date is 10 days after her b-day
what can that mean?

2007-10-15 10:05:52 · 2 answers · asked by *Mike-N-Alpha*`13~ 1 in Family

I like this guy in my class and over the weekend I asked him out by a message on facebook. We're both really shy! He responded and asked if I was the in his class and I said yes. Today in class I was waiting for him to approach me but he didn't. We also had a quiet study time so it wouldn't have worked. We did lock eyes a couple times but I was too shy to say anything. If he's looking at me a lot what is he thinking?? What should I do tomorrow??

2007-10-15 10:05:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 10:03:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my family keeps trying to break me and my hubby up. i'm a stay at home mom of 3 kids and he works. ever since i had our 2nd child my family keeps tryng to break us up. my mom called one day and told him i was out with some guy and i was sitting right next to him. how can i get them to stop.

2007-10-15 10:02:49 · 9 answers · asked by lisaanndubay 4 in Family

And why is it that its always the husband who pay the wive during divorce??

2007-10-15 10:02:44 · 15 answers · asked by V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I brought a girl I really like back to my place and she was really sexy, I was completely turned on, but when we were all over eachother, I kept getting hard then loosing it quickly because I was tired and drunk, any suggestions?? (sensible answers only please!)

2007-10-15 10:00:20 · 23 answers · asked by Brundle 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with a guy who got divorced in April/no kids. We have a lot of chemistry but he needs some time on his own before getting into another relationship. I want him to tell me about his ex-wife/marriage but don't know what the best way is to ask. Any ideas?

2007-10-15 09:59:43 · 3 answers · asked by electra1978 2 in Singles & Dating

I gave up my apartment to travel and get over the loss of a love of 13 years, I thought it would help...now I have no idea where to start! How to I begin?

2007-10-15 09:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by neveragain 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Which is more attractive in a man--

a man as a warrior/protector;

or

a man as a provider?

For this question, you have to pick one of those two.
But choose wisely, my daughter.

2007-10-15 09:58:46 · 9 answers · asked by LuckyLavs 4 in Singles & Dating

My mom says I run around the streets too much. Almost everyday I come home from school, stay until about 4:30, leave, come home at 8:30. I think she doesn't understand that I can't stay at the house all day everyday. So I was just wondering if its me who needs to understand her or her who needs to understand me?

2007-10-15 09:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by devonl18 2 in Family

I've been friends with a guy who got divorced in April/no kids. I'm curious about his ex-wife/marriage but don't know what the best way is to ask. Any ideas?

2007-10-15 09:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by electra1978 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Today in biology class our teacher assigned us new seats away from our friends so that we wouldn't talk to them. When it came to my name I got put with the last person in the world I wanted to sit with whose name is Eric. We sat towards the front of the class. When he heard that we were together he let out a "NO!" as if he was totally disgusted. Of course I didn't want to sit with him either. When he sat down next to me he was kind of sitting away form the end of the table and as class came to an end slowly came cloiser to the center of it. In addition when we first sat down he said to one of his friends who sat infornt of us that he hates the front of the room and wants to go back to the back where he previously sat and that he was going to do badly in this class now. How do I make peace between us and make both of us more confortable with each other? What should I do?

P.S. He might just think I'm annoying because many times I ask alot of questions?

HELP!!!

2007-10-15 09:53:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-15 09:52:53 · 4 answers · asked by Miss New Jersey =] 5 in Singles & Dating

We don't really know one another. He's a good friend of one of my good friends. He's suggested (via text )
we "hang out" when I get back into town. (I've been away for about a year).
I'll be back in town next month...what to do.?
He's really sexy. But I've just gotten out of a pretty rough relationship that lasted over 6 years.
I'm afraid that might be a dealbreaker.

2007-10-15 09:52:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok this guy i like and he likes me is touching my back and butt and like we hug and kiss and like idk what to do. @ my school i have to wear a skirt every day so he told me to put my feet on the chair and he asked me to kind of open them up! whats that suppost to mean? plus like theres this other girl who always hugs my boyfriend goodbye at school what the hell is that about!?! please help im super desperate for answers!

2007-10-15 09:51:46 · 31 answers · asked by pinkgirl5 1 in Singles & Dating