Is there anything a woman can do to make a man stop masturbating?

Question

is it as simple as more sex or is it something you do out of nature?

is it possible for a woman to provide whatever it is that you get from doing it?

how about porn, i am not against it but i think its something that should be watch together for some kind of stimulation because when a man does it all by himself and then pleases himself, it sounds kinda creepy like someone that watches for some sick twisted pleasure(if you have someone who will have sex with you)

for single men this is ok....

but if i want sex as much as you do, whats the private sessions about? i like porn, i would rather us make our own but if needed, i can watch them with you.

we have a healthy sex life, who still has sex 2x a day after 11 years, we do it all, have all the toys, talk about it all so why does he still take an hour in the bathroom???????

so, is this natural and normal or am i not meeting some kind of standard?

he tells me its not me but i just want to know from other men, is there something we can do to replace it.

i just want to be sure i am always giving 110% and not leaving him feeling like he needs to do this!

WOW, thank you guys sooo much, you are making sooo much sense and its pretty much what i thought, basically theres no replacing that. If its what he needs to do, does helping him do it take away from his alone time?

Answer 1

Its a natural way to maintain control over the higher brain functions. The higher the sperm level in the human male the easier he is to bend to the will of a female. By lowering the sperm level the male is then able to think for himself.

Answer 2

Masturbation is normal and natural for both sexes. However, if he is getting laid twice a day after 11 years and still masturbates daily, then he has a huge sex drive. I applaud you for doing it that much with him.
Perhaps he needs some professional help to get his libido in check. He must be the male version of a nympho. Most men would be happily satisfied if they got it twice a day. Most women also. If you know that's what he does in the bathroom why not just go in and help him out with a hand job or a ********. When he sees your not against it then maybe the two of you can do mutual mastubation as an additional outlet. Make it three or four times a day if that's what it takes to keep him happy and satisfied.

Answer 3

It is a natural as the leafs falling this time of year for majority of males. It has nothing at all to do with the females involved in the relationship and just something that guys enjoy at times when alone, same as some females. It may be wise to do so together now and again but if you find a way to stop this practice I would suggest that you bottle it and get a trademark on it as you will soon be a multi-millionaire.

Answer 4

You have to understand the biology of the male of the species. Men are biologically polygamous. He is biologically bored with you. It has nothing to do with you in particular, he would get bored with a porn star eventually. And it is not emotional or physical boredom. It is biological. if he were to have sex with different women, occasionally or continuously, he would never do that. BUT, if it is just you and no porn or topless bars, he will take that hour in the bathroom. It would be best to watch the porn togethere thenhe could get what he wants and you won't have to wonder about him. Swingers figured it out centuries ago. The normal divorce rate is 50% to 60%. The divorce rate amoung swingers is 5% to 10%. There is a reason for it.

Answer 5

wow - you have had sex twice a day for 11 years! Most men would be more than happy with what you have to offer. If your man still feels the need to masturbate I don't see anything at all you could do to stop him, that's just the way he is. Don't worry about it - if both of you are happy sex-wise, and he still needs some additional distraction that certainly isn't your fault. Just let him be.

Answer 6

A lot of guys just do it for a quick release in the morning or at night. It's not even that they are horny - it's just that it's a pressure valve for them and they don't want all the effort of sex.

Men love porn. End of story. If he's ignoring you in favor of the porn, that's a problem - but if he's still paying you loads of attention just role with it. It's completely normal. In fact if you stop guilting him about it you'll have a happier husband who pays you even more attention.

Answer 7

If you are having an active sex life then let him do what he needs to do. Do not put the blame on you. He is a man and they sometimes like to take care of it by themselves without having to please another. It is normal. Now if he was preferring his hand over you then that is another story. Do not tell him not to do so because you will just make it worse. Do not worry what he is doing in the bathroom if he is taking care for your needs then actually it is none of your business.

Answer 8

He is likely normal and you are likely wonderful! Here's one way to find out....For the next two weeks give him several extra hand jobs and bjs. See if his activitiy continues. Men's minds are constantly thinking about sex. This doesn't mean he is any way unfaithful or that you are in any way lacking. It just is. Good luck....and have fun!

Answer 9

Well let me start by saying the first thing that came to mind while I was reading your question............. WOW!!!!!!!!!! Doesn't sound like he's got it to bad. But maybe he just needs some alone time sometimes. Just look at it as it's better for that than going out on you. Best of luck and let me leave by say WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! one more time have fun.

Answer 10

It's totally normal for your husband to jerk off. I've been married 10 years and I stroke it almost everyday in the shower
and I still make sure my woman gets off everyday 3-4 times a day
1st one @ 6am ,2nd one @ Lunch and 3rd or 4th one at night
have you tried jerking him off?