ok this guy i like and he likes me is touching my back and butt and like we hug and kiss and like idk what to do. @ my school i have to wear a skirt every day so he told me to put my feet on the chair and he asked me to kind of open them up! whats that suppost to mean? plus like theres this other girl who always hugs my boyfriend goodbye at school what the hell is that about!?! please help im super desperate for answers!
2007-10-15 09:51:46 · 31 answers · asked by pinkgirl5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they guy i like is my boyfriend and hes not hugging the other girl shes hugging him
2007-10-15 10:00:03 · update #1
He wants to make out with you. By asking to to put your feet up and then spread your legs, he's trying to get a look at your panties and your private area (and you'd probably be flashing everyone else in the room, as well).
Just because you like him doesn't mean you have to agree to every request he makes of you - in fact, he'd probably respect you more if you are a little modest and don't allow so much physical contact so easily. It's okay to insist that kissing and intimate touching is only for "boyfriends", not for guys that just flirt with you. If he likes you that much and wants to touch you, he should be willing to commit to being a boyfriend and not just some guy.
The hugging girl may be just a friend, or he may be flirting with her as well. The way they hug can gives clues, but the only way to find out for sure is to ask him about it.
2007-10-15 09:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im confused. You said its a guy you like. Is this guy your boyfriend or jus some guy you like. Im not sure how old you are but I had my share of stupid things I did in school regarding boys. I would not degrad myself by doing that, that should be behind closed doors. Him hugging another girl all the time could mean he likes her to or shes just a friend. You need to clarify with this guy what yall are, and you need to reevaluate why you are letting him do these things to you when you have your skirt on.
2007-10-15 10:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by lpnprn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it sounds to me like the guy you like is just trying to use you. Obviously he thinks you're easy. Try to go slower and see if he likes/respects you enough to respect that.
And with your boyfriend, you should just talk to him and find out what this girl is all about, there could be a reason. Of course, sounds to me like he's not the kind of guy who would show you that much respect, so maybe you should just move on.
2007-10-15 10:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by fantasylover830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to always come out as the best liked, most respected pinkgirl you can be, never let a boy touch you anywhere except your hands or face.......otherwise he just wants to touch all your parts and then go right to the next girl. Be smart! Be one step ahead.
2007-10-15 09:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by justbnbon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's making some sexual advances, he wants to hit it girl. Hugging other girls is not an issue unless he is telling them to wear a skirt, put their feet on a chair and open them up.. then u have problems..
2007-10-15 09:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by mZwHaTtHaTiZ! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a player. He obviosly wants to getin you pants(or skirt).
the part about hugging the girl- it could be nothing. Mabey they're just good friends. it depends on how he's hugging her. pay attention to how long he holds on and where his hands are.
in my oppinion you're better off without him.
2007-10-15 09:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all make sure that girl is just a friend and ask him about it i so had the problem and yeah so about what your man want is some *** OK sorry to be so out there but if he says that u know that's what he want but don't get all mad about it cuz most guys are like that ok
2007-10-15 09:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMN!!!! WHAT SCHOOL DO YOU GO TO!!!!
OK FIRST OF ALL THE GUY YOU LIKE IS ASKING YOU TO OPEN YOUR LEGS SO HE CAN GET A PEEK OR FONDLE YOU WHICH EVER COMES FIRST --- LET ME SUM THIS UP FOR YOU---- HE WANT SOME PU**Y AND THAT'S IT---
NOW THE GIRL THAT HUGS YOUR BOYFRIEND THEIR PROBABLY JUST FRIENDS BUT THEN AGAIN SHE COULD WANT HIM FOR HERSELF SO WATCH OUT!!!!!
2007-10-15 10:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dude, no element forcing her if she purely treats you like a firend. pass on in case you do no longer choose to get harm. Wait in case you think of you are able to exchange her emotions and suggestions in direction of you for a greater suitable. yet i basically wana say that.. The longer you wait, the greater harm you will get. Being acquaintances together with her isnt that undesirable too. a minimum of you are able to confide to her, bypass out chit-chatting, video clips or lunch together with her, suitable? stable luck! =)
2017-01-03 17:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. Close you legs, get some life experience and you'll realized you're being used. We need more girls to wake up and show some dignity. Chin up and worry about your friends, family and schoolwork.
2007-10-15 09:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋