i'm in love!!!!!!!!!
about 2 or 3 years ago my brother-in-low intreduced a family to my family.
there are 2 girls in that family and i love one of them.
i didn't sayanything then
but sudenly they moved to another city ( about 2 months after i met them)
i have been in love with her but she dosen't know about it
and it's been 3-4 years i haven't been intrested in any other girl, because i think i've found the one for me.
i don't know what to do!!
my brother-in-low has theire number and he calls them sometimes.
i took their house number of my sister's phone and they don't know it.
i don't know what to do!?!?!?!?!?!?
i have not been talking to anyone about this(just my sistre)
this is a love of been carrying in my heart and on my sholders for 3-4 years, and i think i can't take it anymore
i think if i call her, there is a posibility that she'll say no. so i don't whant to do something that could make her go at of my life 4ever.
i look at her number evry night before i sleep.
2007-10-15 11:36:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with first answerer. I understand the pressure that you feel. Just remember nothing goes wrong if she says she doesnt like you and if she says she does like you you will be very happy! Think about it like this. Somebody places a wheel in front of you. 3/4 of it says extreme happyness and 1/4 says life stays same. You would spin it right? Well spin that wheel and call her!
2007-10-15 11:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Maxy_Paxy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be wise to remember that The two of you are at different places . You are head over heels and she doesn't know. So the first order of business is to be sure not to scare
her. Then move slowly and on a friendly plane, Call and ask
to speak to her. Tell her something is coming up in the city she lives in that you would like to see, and you were wondering if she would like to go with you, as she made a good impression. Go calmly from there. I suspect if she moved only 2 months after you met her. You may not really
know who she is. This will give you a chance to find out. If it has been 3 or 4 years,you had better hurry. She is liable to
get away, and then you will never know. Good Luck.
2007-10-15 18:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you have a real problem.First unless you have been dating this girl for the last 3-4 years you cannot TRULY love her.Let me explain I KNOW you DO love her, but you know NOTHING about her just what you saw the one time and very little else.It takes time to REALLY get to know someone and lets say you started dating her.What would you do if she was a horrible human being and totally hated everything you love?
Your feelings would eventually change towards her.
You need to get a grip, push those feelings aside, and ask your brother to take you over there sometime and maybe ask her our and look for FRIENDSHIP not RAMANCE first and see where it goes from there only time will tell if she is interested in you or not.She may have a b/f.You HAVE to be willing to let go before you can be free,otherwise you will torment yourself to death.
2007-10-15 18:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she's not exactly in your life now, is she. Get on the phone and ring her or send her some flowers with a card - thinking of you- then follow it up with a phone call,
Dont be shy - just say you've been thinking about her since she moved and could you meet up sometime. Dont go on about love and marriage too soon or you may frighten her away. And if you do meet up take a photo. It will be more rewarding than a number to look at at night
2007-10-15 18:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by bri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, go for it! just call her already. let her know how u feel.
Don't make urself sick over this girl. If u can't get her out of ur head/heart then take a chance on letting her know. who knows maybe there was a connection and she's wondering if she should do the same with u.
Rejection is a part of life. U'll have a boreing life if u play it safe all the time but ur not even playing at all.
2007-10-15 18:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Detroiter1967is outa here! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you must really love her. SO, grab up the courage to call that number and ask for her.
Talk to her a little, just don't tell her your feelings the first time around because you might scare her off. Get to know her, find things you have in common, maybe even meet up once in a while if you get to know her well enough. Then when you two are good with each other, and she feels comfortable around you, try and tell her how you feel. I'm rooting for you, I hope you get your girl~ :)
2007-10-15 18:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need 2 tell her the truth and if she says no than you will know that she isnt the one 4 u, but if u dont tell her u may never know. U said yourself u havent been able to think about any other girls and u might b missing somthing, u might b missing ur true love because ur 2 anamered with this girl so tell her how u feel. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-15 18:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by dancer_babe45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not in love
puppy love
lust
but not love
you have no idea what you are
in fact you are kinda scary
as in stalker crazy scary
to think that 1 girl so far away for 4 years is the one for you
limits yourself
do you think she will wait for somebody like you for 4 years?
think again
she is probably dating some guy right now
all because 4 years ago you were not man enough to step up to the plate and ask her out
you want her because you want to correct a error in your judgment
so you can say to yourself
i was right all along
and no
you were not
2007-10-15 18:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say "i think if i call her, there is a posibility that she'll say no" there is also a possibility that she will say yes...obviously you feel strongly and can't seem to get on with your life in another relationship. this is a bit of unhealthy worshiping of a relationship that you don't have..try and call her..it can't hurt either way she answers any more than it hurts to wonder and hold on to that love..give it a shot and then you can either be happy with her or move on a bit with your life..stop looking at her number every night and dial it.
2007-10-15 18:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by cinderellas_match 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to call her and EXPRESS your feelings to her man..Im telling you just pick up your damn phone right now and grow some balls and DO it..I know your thinking she will think im an idiot..SHE wont girls think its the hottest thing when a guy does that..she will feel so special because you have been thinking of her everyday and havent called her..just tell her how much she means to you..dont back down..im tellin u man from experience..DOnt be afraid of failure.everyone fails in life at something but i seriously dought you will fail at this TRUST ME!..go for it man..hope i could help...MOST IMPORTANT>.GIRLS ALWAYS WANT WHAT THEY CANT HAVE!..play hard to get..she will come begging.
2007-10-15 18:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by none 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋