Family & Relationships - 15 October 2007

For me, it's how much women need to talk and talk about the same things over and over and over again. What do you find puzzling?

2007-10-15 07:51:15 · 16 answers · asked by Lover of Blue 7 in Singles & Dating

Here is a little back story. I meet this girl at the casino, I didnt even talk to her i just wrote my name and number on a bingo card with the ink dabber. Walked up and set it in front of her, and walked away. 2 hours later i got a text message from her. She thought it was really cute what i did. We talked a little that night, last wednesday. We talked some friday. I asked if she had any plans that night. She said she was busy. So i told her to call me when she wasnt busy. she replied to that with "maybe I will :)". Then last night we talked about what we did over the weekend. Nothing big. So what should be my next move?

2007-10-15 07:50:37 · 1 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are swingers for 3 years now. A situation has evolved that I am not sure what to think of.

Although the people we play with are happy with both of us, my husband is such a spectacular lover that word amongst our social group and the club we go to has got out and the women are simply nuts over him. I am starting to think that some of the couples we play with are only there because she wants him and he is OK with me, but not hugely interested.

Trust me I get mine from these playdates - I am very happy. But I know I am not as good a lover as my husband and it makes me feel a little weird that these women think he's just awesome. Any advice on this?

Besides not swinging, as I'm sure many of you will say?

2007-10-15 07:49:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

u kno....wear my birthday suit! can i get girls????

2007-10-15 07:45:05 · 16 answers · asked by babyCub 3 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking about either peircing my nose or my tounge (haven't decided yet) but I am a little afraid cuz I am newly single and I don't wanna scare off any guys! lol but Do men generally think that it's sexy? Or which one would be sexier if so?!! HELP~!

2007-10-15 07:44:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How is the best way to ask your girlfriend for "oral" favors? Road head? When my girlfriend is on her period sex is not an option and that is okay with me. What way is the best to ask when she is on her period?

2007-10-15 07:40:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 07:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by STORMY K 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering.

2007-10-15 07:39:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 07:39:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is getting married and her sisters have decided that the party is going to be held in a restaurant and will be funded by all the bridesmaids (the sisters are the maids of honor). The shower is going to cost $118 each, and we are also each expected to each come up with a game to play and provide a gift for the winner of the game also. Seeing as I'm already spending so much for the shower itself, am I still supposed to buy a shower gift to give to my friend on top of it?

2007-10-15 07:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by Val 1 in Weddings

do you let other cars in? or do you get road rage? if you do, do you swear at your self and starting jumping around in the car or swear at other people? or do you just take your time and let the world pass you by?

my husband pulled out in front of a bus once and when the bus beeped his horn he stook his head out of the window and shouted a lot of abuse!!
Another time (this is the truth 100%) we were driving up this street when we let this flash car go, he didnt wave his hand to say thanks and my husband was going mad girating in the car when my daughter piped up "hey isnt that our doctor" it was so funny, he hasnt been able to look him in the eye since!!

2007-10-15 07:37:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so, im 14 turning 15 jan. 5. my name is kelly/ he just turned 21,,, his name is brandon,...im Very mature for my age, hes very imature, i act like im 17-18, he acts like hes 16-17, we have been dating for about 3 months, If You Saw us Walking Down the Street... Would U think its wrong?

2007-10-15 07:37:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if it is for money?

a)If it is to survive?
b) if its to buy luxuries?

2007-10-15 07:36:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-15 07:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating

my buddy works at krogers only makes like 8 an hour and they take most his check for child support so he only brings home like 150 a week home so 600 a month 7200 a year so he is stuck liveing on his cousins couch is there any finanial help for that situation or no cause that snot even enough to live that crazy when single moms get free house free child care and food stamps and medical card while hes stuck paying child support and being dirt poor thats ohio for you

2007-10-15 07:34:04 · 4 answers · asked by patrick43113 1 in Family

I am open to meeting people and having them IM me, but I dont wanna just strike up a conversation and 5 min later they are asking me what color my panties are! I feel if you are into "dirty" talk go to a different place to find those friends! I am very open to most things but talking dirty with a man or woman (who knows really)! that I just said hello to is a little much for me! I would like to meet some REAL people like me who have a phone and can possibly someday meet. How bout you? Do u lie on line or are you yourself like me? That is my question!

2007-10-15 07:33:39 · 23 answers · asked by just me! 2 in Singles & Dating

The relationship is new but very intense for a long distance relationship. I just want him to meet my effort half way. How do i handle this?? So confused!!!!!

2007-10-15 07:32:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hang on Friend
Its not good-bye. Dont say that. For we will see each other again. We are always there for each other. At each others sides during times of need.
Hang on friend.
its not over. we have been there for each other since day one. i love you more then life its self. love you.



-i wrote this for my friends when i was moving from kentucky to tennessee. wat do you think of it???

2007-10-15 07:31:47 · 7 answers · asked by Kaitlyn A 1 in Friends

I`ve allways heard that when that when someones parent dies they have to leave their kids at least a dollar. Is this true? Does it matter what state? Not being cold, just wondering.

2007-10-15 07:31:16 · 6 answers · asked by rockpendragoon 2 in Family

My husband left for Iraq. He wanted to join the national guards. I was completely against it. I decided i will stay by his side and since we are a married couple, we discussed him joining. i finally agreed because i wanted him to be happy and make his own decisions. Well, i found out that he lied to me before we agreed on him signing up and went ahead and did it anyway with out discussing it with me. I feel betrayed. When he arrives, i want to tell him thati feel this way. We are a marreid couipe and are suppsed to agree on life altering decisions like this. How should i word it to him?

2007-10-15 07:30:56 · 22 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever thought about cheating?? If so, did you ever go through with it??

2007-10-15 07:30:15 · 19 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-15 07:28:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't want them to take what I had before I even knew he existed. We live in IL. I only want what I brought into the marriage and half of our wedding gifts. We havent been married all that long.He can have everything else. We don't owe any money. I was not at fault. He left me for my ex-best friend.

2007-10-15 07:26:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the weird thing is that he passes my house everyday...as if he is checking up on me.....he even drives his friends cars by my house just to not make it obvious.......he has his friends checking up on me..... I try to play it off as if i dont see him...i don't want to blow him up....why doesnt he answer my messages?

2007-10-15 07:24:06 · 10 answers · asked by Aquarius 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to a party last night and there were alot of pretty girls. There was one girl who i saw who looked amazing. i just looked at her as she was walking by with her mate & i gave her a slight smile & i saw looking back at me with 1/2 a grince. The thing is everytime i wanted to speak 2 her, she was surrounded by other girls which made it so intimidating. My mates were stupidly playing on the PS2 upstairs so i had no choice but to be with them.

When people were starting to leave, i saw her sitting down in the living room & we made eye contact a few more times but deep down i was just thinking - i wud get rejected & wudn't know what to say. Unfortunately i had to go & couldn't get speak with her. Now i REALLY regret it. In future if this happens, what should i do ?

Girls - How does a guy approach you at a party ? What tips / advice can you give me ?

2007-10-15 07:23:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you're straight and suddenly someone of the same sex asks you for sexual favors and in return give you a hefty sum of money, would you accept?

2007-10-15 07:21:53 · 17 answers · asked by Nir Vana 2 in Singles & Dating

or is that going a little too far?

2007-10-15 07:21:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have never meet them,and now the girl's have contacted us and want to come and live with us, the girls told us that their mother won't buy them clothes or sneaker's and that the oldest who is only 14 years old has a job and she has to buy her own stuff like for school and clothes I feel that at that age this child should not be working. But the NYC child support takes out $180.00 a week for child support and the girls said their mother told them that my husband doesn't support them, every week he gets this money taken out $180.00. Now they want to come and live with us, where do we start, what do we do,

2007-10-15 07:19:17 · 12 answers · asked by emigirl6363 2 in Family

im 19 years old, and all these years ive been studyin by reading in my mind. i dont have the habit of reading out aloud to myself or writing and learning. im doin pretty well in my studies and i have no probs wat so ever with my studying method. however my friend tends to disagree, he keeps tellin me tat i should write and learn or i wont be successful in life and my study method is all wrong. i have tried writin a few times but im really not comfortable studyin tat way. this has resulted in a major fight between us cos he says i dont wanna change myself for the better and blah blah blah. you think he is rite? should i really give up my way of studyin and get adjusted to writing and studyin?

2007-10-15 07:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 31 yr old black woman so PLEASE don't take this question the wrong way,Why are my friends so offended when they see a black man with a white woman or a female that's half black and half white?Me I have a white sister that my mom adopted when I was 11 and she was 13.And I love her and DON'T know what I would do without my (nunu)lol that's my nickname for her lol,but she only dates BLACK guys and black women go slam off!What is going on?SERIOUSLY,can someone feel me in?.

2007-10-15 07:18:05 · 16 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Singles & Dating