i went to a party last night and there were alot of pretty girls. There was one girl who i saw who looked amazing. i just looked at her as she was walking by with her mate & i gave her a slight smile & i saw looking back at me with 1/2 a grince. The thing is everytime i wanted to speak 2 her, she was surrounded by other girls which made it so intimidating. My mates were stupidly playing on the PS2 upstairs so i had no choice but to be with them.
When people were starting to leave, i saw her sitting down in the living room & we made eye contact a few more times but deep down i was just thinking - i wud get rejected & wudn't know what to say. Unfortunately i had to go & couldn't get speak with her. Now i REALLY regret it. In future if this happens, what should i do ?
Girls - How does a guy approach you at a party ? What tips / advice can you give me ?
2007-10-15 07:23:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
f*** the pickup lines. If you make eye contact just keep looking at her, like your a badass. (don't look at her if she's not looking at you, thats creepy). Bring her a beer and say you look very ... thirsty. if she's with her friends you need wingmen, unless you have game, which you don't. after you LISTEN TO HER TALK ABOUT HER SELF (don't talk just ask questions) tell her you think she's really cool and ask if you can call her sometime.
it's hard at first, but you just have to go 4 it. if you get shot down, move to the next one, it's not that hard.
2007-10-15 07:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dart has it part right, the guys at the party are after the meat market. They guy who keeps calling you and working on the relationship knows his chances are better if he doesn't appear to be looking for a one night stand. Not to knock it, maybe you'll find someone that you'll connect with by playing a bit hard to get! When you're just around school, it's not normally the time people think to approach a girl, it's a somewhat more professional situation and everybody's not lubricated. If you're not in a relationship and you see someone you're interested in, approach the guy and ask him. It's extremely flattering to a guy when a girl approaches him and has that much confidence!
2016-03-12 23:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are drinking, play drinking games against the girl(s).
If there is one you are attracted to, ask her to be your partner if you want, or intentionally play against the one you are after.
When you are against them, trash talk a bit, and just dance to the music.
After you have both lost (will eventually happen) approach her, and let the magic happen.
This almost always works, assuming the girl you were against doesn't already have a guy.
The only problem is actually getting the girl you are after to play against you...
Good luck.
2007-10-15 07:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way do NOT listen to BAKR guy up there. cheesy chat up lines never work, if anyone ever tried them on me, ill burst out laughing and walk away.
just go up to the girl and ask her is she would like a drink and then just start TALKING. its really not that hard. and if shes surrounded by girls, walk towards her anyway, and shell probably guess enough to distance herself a bit. thats if shes clever and interested in you.
hope this helped. tc and good luk
2007-10-15 07:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it should be set up like a strip club! when she thinks she can get something (money) from you she approaches you! but unfortunatly you have to set yourself up to be "dogged" which means she's gonna rip your heart apart if she's "taken" or if you aren't completely "perfect" sorry bro!
2007-10-15 07:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Luke A. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Pick up lines
2007-10-15 07:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋