I hate my friends!! They are so mean! They never email me! They never call me. When I see them all they talk about is their other friends! One time I didn't go to the camp we always go 2 and when they got back and said it was their best year ever!! When I was going there they always said they hated it! I'm sick of this! I cry about it all the time. What should I do? Please don't just say stop being their friend or whatever. I want them to know how I feel but when I try to tell them they act like its no big deal! Please help me! Tell me what I should do?
2007-10-15 09:19:19 · 15 answers · asked by dreamergirl443 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks for all your answers! :)
2007-10-15 09:34:19 · update #1
i know it sounds hard and crazy at the time but the same thing happened to me and i was so upset and yeah i cried and i was on my own for a bit but then i found some new friends and looking back on it now it was the best thing that ever happened to me because i think im a nicer person now cos my friends were kinda biatches. my mum kept telling me to find new friends and i thought she didnt understand at the time but im so glad im not friends with them anymore cos now i think their pathetic.
I tried talking to them but they acted as if what i was feeling was no big deal and that made me think i was going crazy or something. it was hard to make friends cos my school is really cliquey but i have now and they are so much better for me!
Hope i helped you sweetie! remember to look on the bright side because although you think you wont make it through this you will!!
xx.x
2007-10-15 10:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All i have to say is if they were your real friend thaen they will always be there for you. Maybe you should find some more friends not to replace the others, but to have some people you can talk to in case your other friends start tripping. And as far as you talking to them you need to make them listen to you. Because like i said if they were your real friends they would be there no matter what.
2007-10-15 16:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Grown~N~Sexi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried to talk to them about this in the past, then you might try a different approach. Maybe you could try making some new friends. Don't drop these friends; just add a few new ones to your life. If you have some acquaintances, try spending more time with them instead.
2007-10-15 16:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by SuperVixn1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand what ur saying but i mean if they were really ur friends they would actually ask u wats wrong or something
thats really mean about them ignoring u i dont think u should stop talking to them just try to act like things r ok but if u start being all upset in front of them and crying they r just gonna talk to u cause they feel Sry 4 u!!!
2007-10-15 16:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by bibi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is very small problem and easy sollution . You dont call/meet them only one week end.. I had a boy frined we enjoyed a lot them how they told you earlier.. But actions should be more than them.. So you problem will be solved..
Next thing is Actually what you need you want friends should
contacts you regularly or u need a friend?If yes add me in your list we can start friendship..if u need a good frnd then add me badluck_4444@yahoo.com
but this is only option depends upon
2007-10-15 16:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by gdp_durga4444 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop taking things so personally and try not to be so sensitive. Perhaps your friends avoid you because you demand too much from them. If it's just too much for you to bear, find new friends, though I suspect you'd find yourself in the same boat no matter who your friends are. Forgive me for saying so, but you seem very self-absorbed. There's more to the world than just how it affects you.
2007-10-15 16:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit them down and tell them how you feel if they say it is no big deal tell them that it may not be but it still hurts your feelings and that you wish they could be closer to you since you treasure there friendship if they still dont care trry getting some more friends so you dont have to just rely on them to be there for you.
2007-10-15 16:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel and find new friends. They don't sound like friends to me.
2007-10-15 16:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to talk 2 them about it they wont no how u feel if u dont tell them. make other friends also
2007-10-15 16:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this but you have to. Wake up and face reality. they are not your true friends. they don't respect you nor value your friendship. look for friends that value you and like you for who you are. there are many out there who want to be your friends. stop lamenting over those who don't appreciate you. you are only stooping under their feet and lowering you self esteem and your value as an individual.
2007-10-15 16:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by gitana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋