I found a guy that i liked but things diddent work out...he wasent like me he diddent want the same things or he diddent love like me or anything like that but now i found a guy thats exactaully like me and every way and i know he loves me but i dont think i love him. I dont understand i was looking for the perfect guy and i found him but i still dont want him whats wrong with me?
2007-10-15 08:34:54 · 23 answers · asked by mazz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you need to figure yourself out then allow yourself time...jumping into something your not sure of in the first place can only make it more confusing for yourself. Take your time and find out who you are and what you want before you invite another into your life.... and don't listen to the haters posting on here, they don't speak for anyone but themselves...take your time, your worth it, right?
p.s.....sometimes we have to get throught the crap to get to the good stuff. Thats how we learn what we dont want as well as what we do want.
2007-10-15 08:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Poptart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta tell you - it's 'didn't,' not 'diddent'. Normally I can overlook spelling, but you did it 3 TIMES.
What's wrong with you is you have to find a medium - a guy who's enough of what you want but still can disagree with you enough to cause sparks in the relationship to keep it hot.
2007-10-15 08:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Han 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you only think you know what you want...
give it some time and things will get clearer. But don't throw the baby out with the bath water. Give this "perfect guy" a chance, maybe he is what you want, maybe not.
P.S.
I'm not trying to put you down but it's didn't, not "diddent" and wasn't, not "wassent" and exactly, not "exactually"...other than that, you're good.
;)
2007-10-15 08:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are young this is normal? why dont you want him? are u curious of women or do u know in fact you are gay? id say take some timeout for you, just because you are gay doesnt mean u have to have a boyfriend, my uncle was with one guy for all his life (past of AIDS) well he andbf broke up so my uncle can have space and his bfcheated on my uncle and as a result died but my point is you are normal human being you just need a rest so u can get to know you better and do you then you will have a more productive relationship!take care!
2007-10-15 08:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. There is no perfect guy or gal
2. Just because someone has most or all of the characteristics you desire in a partner, doesn't mean the chemistry/spark will be there for either of you
3. Have patience, there are over 3.3 billion males on the planet (and plenty of them are gay)
2007-10-15 08:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I'M NOT GAY BUT I HAD THAT PROBLEM WHEN I FOUND THE PERFECT GUY. I ALWAYS WANTED THE IDEAL GUY BUT SOMEHOW I WOULD ALWAYS FIND THE "JERK" OR JUST NOT WHAT I REALLY WANTED. WHEN I LEAST EXPECTED I FOUND THE "MR. RIGHT" BUT EVEN DOUH WE GOT ALONG GREAT I WAS JUST NOT THAT INTO HIM.. ANYHOW I KEPT DATING HIM AND LITTLE BY LITTLE I SAW SOMETHING THAT MADE ME REALLY CARE FOR HIM. I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT I DID NT CARE FOR HIM AS MUCH AS HE DID TO ME AND I ALWAYS HAD THE OPER HAND ON EVERYTHING. WELL ONE DAY I DID SOMETHING WRONG AND HE WALKED AWAY FROM MY LIFE, UNTIL THEN THAT'S WHEN I REALIZED HOW MUCH I TRUELY CARED AND HOW BAD I WANTED HIM BACK IN MY LIFE. I GUESS WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY IS TO BE OPEN TO THIS GUY TRY DATING HIM MAYBE THINGS MIGHT CHANGE!! DATE A GOOD GUY NOT ONE THAT MIGHT HURT YOU.
2007-10-15 08:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like all the girls out there looking for love. If you dont like this other guy let him know, dont lead him on. Taek your time and you'll find the one that is perfect for you and makes you happy and is everything each of you need.
2007-10-15 08:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just isn't the one for you. You can't pick a partner with a check list. It helps to know what you want, but love isn't something you can work out with a calculator. There is that "something special" that you can't put your finger on that makes you fall in love. It's not a known quantity.
2007-10-15 08:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by mrthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you. He may be perfect but if you don't like him than so be it. U just need to go with the flow and I'm guessing this is new for you. Just take it easy and try not to rush into relationships. I wish you the Best of Luck!~ :)
2007-10-15 08:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Pho3nixX008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 points and I"m not trying to bash ok.
1. If two people in a relationship are identical one is unneccessary.
2. Has any one EVER heard a straight man say "he's trying to figure himself out?"
Jesus loves all of us, he just doesn't neccessarily like what we do. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-10-15 08:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by Old Wise One 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋