2007-10-15 06:31:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well the reason people end up divorced, in my opinion, is lack of planning and lack of maturity.
WHen people get involved with a significant other, they fail plan for their futures together. Not many people plan for their future alone. Most couples don't discuss children, religion, finances, and then after years of arguing, they get divorced.
I firmly believe that people need to be 25 years old or older to get married and should be required to take a class on marriage planning. I think more marriages would last if this were teh case.
2007-10-15 06:35:57 · answer #1 · answered by Allison P 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone gets a divorce it all depends on the situation and the people and everyone has to learn from there mistakes so .....If it ends up with divorce then it give you a chance to learn what went wrong and help you with the next relationship! So don't be scared to get married it is very fun if you have the right person :)
2007-10-15 13:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by ~Yoli~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than half of todays marriages end in divorce. I believe it's because people are getting married for the wrong reasons. They are getting married because they love each other.
In reality you do need love for a marriage to work, but there is a lot more to it than that. My personal opinion is that if you aren't having kids at the moment, don't get married yet. Live together, share bills, play house for a while.
But no, people want to rush in to prove their love without realizing the the moment you have to prove your love by marrying someone you're starting out on the wrong foot.
2007-10-15 13:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Crypt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are several ways to look at this. From a religious perspective, marriage is the cornerstone of the sanctity of the family. From a practical perspective, one 'point' is that it gives some structure to a break up (and the statistics do indicate that break ups are if not inevitable then at least not unlikely) in terms of somewhat objective, third-party input into the dividing up of property as well as provision for appropriate upkeep and care of any minor children involved. If you have no religious perspective, no children and little or no property, I guess you could make a case that there isn't much point at all!
2007-10-15 13:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by redline711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone would go into a marriage knowing it was going to fail. It is not something that people want, just sometimes it seems like the only choice. It isn't, but it seems like the only way to be happy when you are so stressed about your marriage. But either way you look at a marriage whether it failed or was successful is that it was a learning experience. You either learn what not to do or how what you are doing is working. That is the same with everything in life. Take it for what it is.
2007-10-15 13:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seemed to have a very negative attitude towards marriage. Not good. Most normal people don't think of divorce. I mean take me for an example, I met reno back in 94 a few months before i got married. and we kept in contact because it was just something about us that we needed to stay in tact with each other. but it never darned on us that i would leave my hub and then end up with my best friend a few yrs later. it's not planned.
IT JUST HAPPENS......
2007-10-15 13:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with today's marriage is that they are not based in a solid base. Most people say they are in "love" yet they do not yet know what that truly means. Today people get married thinking about divorce, when divorce should not be an option but a last resort.
2007-10-15 13:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by wiseob3oo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nobody goes into the marriage expecting a divorce, but some people get married for the wrong reasons and in the end the other person suffers.
2007-10-15 13:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pwople do give it a try but sometimes all the adjustments just dont work out.Then its better to divorce than live a life of misery.Of cours,it leaves very deep scars which makes it more difficult to trust a person the next time.
2007-10-15 13:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by money money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because couples don't go into marriage with the idea of getting a divorce. Things happen in a marriage that may make it necessary for one of the partners to want out...like the other partner beating the crap out of them. Now if YOU would prefer to stay in a marriage where your partner was beating the crap out of you that would be YOUR choice, but frankly I chose to not let my ex's violence get that far thank you.
2007-10-15 15:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋