he likes sex with me but just once a week, and its great and I;m hot and not fat.
2007-10-15 03:37:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh do I understand this situation, Oh too much. My man is the same way. When we first got together we'd have sex all the time, but now he wants it once a week. Sometimes I know he doesnt want to and I get it started and then were both satisfied. Dont take it personally it's just the way it is. I sometimes get frustrated with him. When he doesn't want to I always ask him why, I get the im tired speech, but I know he really is. Do like I do, just start him up and he wont deny you. If he does..polish yourself off...it works just as well. I know we'd like our men to please us whenver we want, but we cant have it our way, all the time. Dont worry your not alone on this subject!!!
2007-10-15 03:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by saraidan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all men don't feel the same about anything really. Some men (and women) do lose interest in sex after marriage.
Discuss this with him, see about counseling if needed, and let him know how much you desire to be with him intimately. Unless he's super duper exhausted, or is having a medical problem, it may be that he's getting it elsewhere. Find out what the real reason is...most people "work for a living" so that's not a valid excuse. What kind of work does he do? What hours? How physical? A 'typical' 40 hr/wk job shouldn't have someone too tired to be intimate with their partner.
2007-10-15 10:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if it's true or not. What really matters is if he really believes it to be true, so let's assume that he does for a moment.
Then that means that he DOES find you to be attractive, & he HASN'T lost his desire for you. He probably does feel tired after a full day at work. Are you trying to tell us that YOU are always ready to deliver sex for him?
As we get older our sex drive diminishes. It's just part of life.
I'll bet he still loves you, & desires you just as much as he did before. He just doesn't get in the mood for S.E.X as often as he did when he was a young & verile man.
Oh, & if any of the idiots that are on here try to tell you that he's getting some on the side, don't listen to that. If he's tired after work, then he's not going to have the energy to go looking for more elsewhere, that is just rediculous.
So the short answer is: Yes it's can be true!
2007-10-15 10:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys do feel tired at times same as females. Perhaps you guys are not using the times that you have available for love making sessions. There is nothing wrong with you two getting it on much earlier in the evening, morning or any other time rather then waiting until it's late at night and he is exhausted. If things can't rectify themselves then it may become necessary for the two of you to seek the help of a professional sex and/or marriage counsellor to try and get things back on track. Regardless of how hot you are if he is too tired he is too tired. Best of luck to you both at getting some romance back in your relationship.
2007-10-15 10:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men feel pressured and tired because it's hard trying to make a living and keep the wife happy and provide for everyone. You need to help him detress after a long day and make sure you talk about things that are bothering him. Yes, A lot of men feel that way but you have to help him find a way to let go and relax.
2007-10-15 10:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many husbends do you have? That's probably the problem. Ask him how many men do NOT work for a living? I mean what are they doing, playing hide and seek for a living?
2007-10-15 10:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No its not true. My husband works 10 hours a day, repairing industrial machinery. He still get frisky with me 3 or 4 nights a week, and we have 3 kids.
2007-10-15 10:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by Fo Sho! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it's not there may be something wrong with him physically or emotionally. men can also go thru the same things that women do. Feel lucky...get ahold of one that want's it every day more than once..I mean every day..Talk about a turn off.
2007-10-15 10:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's true. What do you think we are shagging machines? What do you think when you have a headache three times a week?Give us a break you girls and let us sleep now and then. Ta
2007-10-15 10:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is incomprehensible he is probably going through some change in faith or idealism or wants a pure lifestyle but if its something constant and you cant see any evidence to support this i would get worried especially if your an attractive woman and naturally that's what every man wants this is very abnormal .
2007-10-15 10:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by david g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋