Have you ever gotten back together with someone after a substantial break-up? How did it go? Did it work out for the better, or did you have the same problems as before?
2007-10-15 03:45:04 · 18 answers · asked by Mel 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am going through this at the moment. We are both taking things very slowly and one day at a time. So far things seem to be going pretty good. I'm sure we'll have problems like everyone but, I know that with everything we've been through, we'll never have the same problems or anything like them again. She is a wonderful woman and I count my blessings that we are trying things again and may have a second chance. I'm sure people can make things work by getting back together if they both want to try and are patient with each other as they work through any issues or doubts they may have.
2007-10-16 02:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it can work but, its not easy you have to be able to let go of the past and live with the things you really didn't like about that person i am in a reunited relationship and really i'm not that happy there are other reasons i stay really its the same old things not much has changed but thats not to say you will have the same problem i would say ask yourself if you would always wonder what might have been ? if you can ask this without truly wondering then then theres no point in going any futher but if you do wonder then go for it let play out and see where it goes i wish you all the best
2007-10-15 10:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reuniting can work if you both talk about the real problems of the break up, and work to improve them. This usually takes a long time. If you both are willing to work it will work out.
2007-10-15 10:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by tysdad62271 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend on the problems you had before in your first time around. If there was cheating or trust issues its kinda hard to build that back up and it will always be in the back of your mind. then it depends on you and him as indidviduals, I mean what happened before to make you break up? Would you be able to overlook it now and go in with a fresh look on things or are you going to drag the first time around back into it? Me personally didnt work out b/c the second round i found out he cheated the first go round so it all depends, best of luck to you.
2007-10-15 10:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on why the couple broke up. If it was something silly and they were just too stubborn to work it out, then maybe some time apart could put everything into perspective. But if they broke up because of one ongoing issue that could never be resolved (cheating, lying) then I don't think so. Not without some professional help.
2007-10-15 10:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by tanam73 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We had serious marriage problems around year 9 to the point we had the divorce papers ready to sign. We worked it back out and are still/ back together 10 years later.
It's definitely made us stronger in our relationship and I don't think we have the same problems. But we still have problems, doesn't everyone?
2007-10-15 10:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by simply_me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if u luv someone let them go & if they return get urs & kick their @%" right back out that freakn door, cuz the reason u did the first time is good enough. In my experience 14yrs was well enough waisted trying to fix what wasn't meant 2 be!
2007-10-15 10:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by bukoz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and it worked out beautifully, we have been married for 37 years now. We worked out all problems and have had a loving marriage.
2007-10-15 10:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time it works is say your were 18 at the time and divorced and broke up,, but then find each other again when you are 30-60,, then you have grown up and understand more of lifes BS
2007-10-15 11:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not since I was a very young kid, and it's never going to happen again. One chance per person per lifetime cuts down on drama and leads you to a good partner more quickly.
2007-10-15 11:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋