2007-10-15 03:18:50 · 7 answers · asked by Nice guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The apartment is in my name we have 1 son together and she has 2 other kids we still sleep in the same bed we still carry on as if we were still together but when it comes to sex she puts up a red flag and that has been a problem even when we were in a relationship she always would blame not being in the mood on either things she was going through mentally or tired or etc; she said she wanted to be roommates because she doesnt want to answer to where she has been if she goes out or have to answer to why she donesn't want to have sex and feel free to do what she wants when she wants to but it is not about meeting someone else she said she is dealing with a lot on her mind and she needs some me time but still live together and give each other respect with the descision that was made We have gone through this before but it was me that wanted to just be roomates but we worked things out but she still always held sex to minimal with her excuses I really love her and she knows it
2007-10-15 04:10:14 · update #1
Time to move on..
"need my space" is girltalk for "I found someone new"
2007-10-15 03:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely radical about this, move out for a week or so, and she will completely react to your actions and fall in love even more. What she is actually expressing is a cry out for something new and creative. A short separation will indeed work for the two and while you're on your own think of how you can make the relationship more adventurous, interesting and exciting. Don't give in to her commands, stablish your own rules and start from there. You are the man. Remember. Move out or prepare to get cheated on. if you're not married to her what the **** are you waiting for it's been 8 years she's getting completely impatient, propose to her already will you. Before it's too late.
2007-10-15 10:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel Rodd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go to the past and Annalise your activity. Find out where it went wrong. Somewhere at some point your attitude towards her has hurt her. She had pointed it out to you but you have ignored it. Find out the real reason and try to pacify her. Remember one thing sex is thing most ladies do not relish like man. See if you had demanded more or not. To investigate all these you need time. But one thing she loves you and that is why do not want separation. Now she is giving you a second chance accept it and try to develop the relation once again adjusting yourselves towards her likes and dislikes.
2007-10-15 10:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Indian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well move out. This is her way of telling you the magic is over and neither of you took the effort to get married to seal the deal and now she's ready to move on to someone else. If you allow this to continue, next she'll be setting rules for who's allowed to visit and stay over as far as friends and new "acquaintences" go.
2007-10-15 10:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know your situation, but in the 8 years did you talk about marriage? Maybe she is ready for more than just a live-with situation and since you wont take the initiative, she is going to explore her options.
2007-10-15 10:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by jessiejungle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm there are two possibilities on why she said that.. first is that your "woman" must have fallen out of love.. maybe she realized that you two are not really meant to be together.. the other one is that maybe she's counting on you to actually propose to her already (if you're both old enough).. you've been together for 8 years..
2007-10-15 10:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by ღஐ Lacey ஐღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont think being room mates will work out actaully.I think if she wants her space then tell her that u2 need to live seperate.Maybe things will work out better that way.
2007-10-15 10:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by Gemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋