Suppose your man never got jealous. You come home from work with a male coworker, he sees you get out of the car, when you walk up to him he simply says. “What do you want for dinner honey?” He says this as if he did not just see you exit a car with some guy he does not know driving.
2007-10-15 04:15:38 · 22 answers · asked by Immortal Cordova 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We love it when guys get jealous it makes us feel loved/liked which ever way u wanna look at it...
2007-10-15 04:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by maorigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy always poisons love, but stupidity can be equally dangerous. I think it is reasonable to ask who that person is who gave her a ride, whether it is male or female. Why didn't she introduce the man?
Trust is essential in a marriage. If a man is sending along a chaperon with his wife while she does her grocery shopping and asks her to account for every second of her time, then I would say there is a real jealousy problem. A few reasonable questions do not constitute jealousy.
My husband and I have a hard rule in our house. If one of us goes somewhere overnight on business, no overnight house guests (except our children of course) of the opposite sex to the one remaining at home are allowed. This applies to my husband's brother and my best long-trusted friend as well. I do not trust other women or even male family members. You should make the rules with your wife ahead of time. If you see some areas which could lead to problems, then work out a solution together.
I don't envision my husband ever asking me "What would you like me to make you for dinner honey?" unless I am so ill or injured that I can't cook.
2007-10-15 04:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when a man gets jealous it's his way of trying to claim his "woman". I think it's rude and immature when a man gets jealous for no reason at all. In this situation that you gave I am happy that man was a man and trusted in his girl. Some women associate jealous with love. They think if he gets jealous thats showing his love. Then when the man starts beating them they associate the beating with love thinking he really loves me this much or he wouldn't do it. I think jealous can be unhealthy. I am a woman and I do not get jealous at all. My bf thinks that it's because I don't care and I told him that jealousy means theres no trust. And never get in the notion of saying "Its not you I don't trust" because that makes no sense. Still your loved one is saying that you will give in to whatever is going to happen.
2007-10-15 04:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cordove, it could be that he is just comfortable in the relationship and he trusts that you would not play around behind his back. He could also have faith in your relationship and feel that you are mature enough and would not flaunt it in his face if you were to be playing around behind his back. Regardless you should consider yourself very fortunate to have a male that is not envious or jealous of your relationships with other males. There are many females that suffer abuse just for looking at other men and as such there men are in need of professional help. So please do not think less of your man for not showing jealousy to you and instead be grateful that he is so mature and comfortable with you.
2007-10-15 04:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a certain amount of jealousy is healthy but if a guy is overly jealous then it's a complete turnoff. Judging by this man's reaction he obviously has complete faith and trust in the woman he loves.
2007-10-15 04:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy comes from insecurities in a relationship. He knows what she needs to do to keep you happy. When folks are not giving their 100 percent, there is a good chance they will be room for some insecurity. Confidence is the key.
2007-10-15 04:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as people are human and temptations are real, its normal to wonder what your wife is doing with a stranger driving her home. How one handles it, questions and radar up, without being paranoid is the key. If I came home with a strange woman driving me , I would expect my love to be appropriately curious AND accepting of my answer( the trust part) UNLESS it becomes a pattern of suspicious ways......
No stalker types or suffocating inseruities, just a healthy jealosy is fine by me.
2007-10-15 05:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overly jealous is defiantly not good but sometimes it's good to have a little jealousy, it makes you feel loved and like they wouldn't want anyone else to have you, or they really do care about where you go and who you are with.
2007-10-15 04:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived both....my first husband saw me get out of a guys car that gave me a ride home from work. My husband never mentioned it to me, that's because he was cheating on me (I found this out for sure later.) My present boyfriend is very jealous, he would of questioned me throughly about it, and I know for a fact he has never cheated on me.
2007-10-15 04:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by sotagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is waiting for you to tell him whats going on between you and the coworker. Or he trusts you tremendously. why dont you just ask how he feels about the incident
2007-10-15 04:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by mycorollababy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋