My friend lives with her boyfriend and her mom. She does drugs. I am afiaid she is going to get hurt. Should i be worried
2007-10-15 06:05:14 · 8 answers · asked by He loves me he loves me not..... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No you should not be "worried" - as worrying serves no purpose.
I think maybe your question is "What can I do to make sure my friend is okay?"
And - if that IS your question - then all you can do is ask her. Check in with her. Preface your conversation with a statement about how much you care about her -and then let her know that you are concerned and why. That's just about all you can control. Yourself and your actions. You cannot control her. If she wants your help - or somebody to listen - you can offer it. Otherwise - you can't do anything to control her. All you can do is offer your friendship. It's her choice if she wants to take it or not.
2007-10-15 06:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first problem is your friend has a mother who is stupid enough to let the boyfriend live there. Why?
Your friend's mother doesn't have very good rules, so doing drugs is not surprising.
Your friend might just get hurt, hon, i don't know. you can let her know you feel she's careless with her life and you are concerned. That is the best you can do.
Worry about YOU....
2007-10-15 06:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried, but ask yourself "what CAN I do?" You can tell her all you want that you are worried but she is choosing to live her life this way. Support her as much as you can but if she does not listen then you are just going to have to walk away.
2007-10-15 06:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by shadowynight23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i would be worried for your friend and for her mom. see if there is anything you can do to help. if not i dont wanna say it but go to the police. have the mom turned in. they court will prolly put her in a rehab.
2007-10-15 06:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by ash<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - Your friend is on drugs. That is not good.
2007-10-15 06:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and try to get her to remove herself from that situation or seek some in patient treatment.
2007-10-15 06:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this. turn her in as soon as you can call like from a payphone and dont tell your name. help her she will thank you later .
2007-10-15 06:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-10-15 06:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋