whenever we go we have to deal with people?and they are not giving that kind of things?and sometimes you are so provoked that you want to fight to ask them to stop..what do they actualy want? is like you cant do this or do that or else people will talk against you.what can we do?but is not good to either to keep our feelings to...so how?
2007-10-15 05:47:23 · 4 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have no idea what you are talking about. I am at peace with myself, and I don't see how anybody can not be at peace with themself. Seems like a waste of time and energy.
As for the rest of it, maybe get into an assertiveness training class or something because you sound sort of nuts.
2007-10-15 05:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to get to a point where you realize that you ALLOW others to determine how you feel. Others may say or do something that angers or upsets you, but you need to remember that you let them upset you when they do this.
It is very hard to do. Try meditation, prayer and maybe even just singing a little song to yourself that makes you happy inside.
2007-10-15 12:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just learn to do it, we are what we have learned to become on this life road, some love and lose and some love and stay in a crappy relationship, some people treat others bad etc.
no one said this life was going to be easy and growing old is certainly not for the weak hearted
2007-10-15 12:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we have to deal with others where ever we go.
some are generous some are not.
we have to accept those we encounter at face value, and be the type of person WE want to be.
if people talk against you, so what? they have the right to their opinions.
Instead of letting what other people do control your emotions, just control your own feelings. it works better that way.
2007-10-15 12:52:00 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋