they guy i dated for 2 yrs left me, a bunch of friends took me out to help me feel better including my best friend who is a guy while i had never thought of him in a way other then a friend but while my realtionship was on the rocks about a week ago it crossed my mind that my best friend would make a really good bf, but it quickly passed i know that my friend has never seen me that way either
but back to the night out i got pretty drunk and passed out on the way home when i woke up i was in his lap (both dressed) and he had his arms around me he was awake and kinda just softly rubbing my back. well what does that mean? when we danced that night we danced a little closer then we used to. was he just trying to comfort me or was he feeling the same thing i was feeling? we spent the whole next day together and everything was normal just like before but he did do some things that were diff like he protected me from his brothers teasing me and stuff. should i say something or wait for him?
2007-10-15 05:58:40 · 16 answers · asked by ... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tricky. He could just be acting really nice since he knows you're hurting. Or he could be edging his way in but not know how to do it. Just ask him about it.. that's the best way cause if not you're gonna be reading into everything he does and wondering if there is a double meaning.
2007-10-15 06:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by cafeconle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a sweet guy. I think if you two were to start dating, start slowly. You want to make sure that it's a true attraction -- and not because you're in the rebound and not because he feels as if he needs to fill in that space for you. Some of the best relationships come around after the two have been best friends.
2007-10-15 06:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kim38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Organise another night out and stay away from alcohol. then see how things develope. DON'T PUSH IT BUT DON'T PULL AWAY.
Remember life is not a rehearsal and you may not get a second chance. If it works out Great if it doesn't you will know it was not meant to be.
Good luck and remember you will not find the answer in alcohol
2007-10-15 06:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the opportunity and take action instead of words. For example grab his arm while walking. Give him a little peck on the cheek when you say goodnight. Touch him while you're talking to him. Get your face real close when possible. Buy him an ice cream cone. Things will progress from there. I think he feels the same way from what you say.
2007-10-15 06:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by thomas m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why the drama?
You're friends, right?
Say something witty like, "Hey, I'm single, wanna go have dinner with me?
At dinner, talk to him, tell him the idea of the two of you dating crossed your mind, is it realistic, or should you remain "just friends"?
If he has any interest whatsoever, you'll know.
If not, no harm, no foul, you can stay friends.
Be honest with him, and sober.
Luck
2007-10-15 06:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you confront him and see what his feelings are. If your freindship is strong then you should be able to talk about it. It could be a freind comforting another friend but see what he says. If you had those feelings before, maybe they are still there but your still hurt from your last bf. Take it slow but be open & honest with your feelings.
2007-10-15 06:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything right now. You're break up is too fresh and it honestly just sounds like you're friend genuinly cares about you and enjoys your company. If he say, kisses you, that's different. But being a good friend is about all there is for now.
2007-10-15 06:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was comforting you!!!! hes your best friend what else is he suppose to do? i wouldnt say anything to him, and i wouldnt say it now cuz then he will think he is the rebound guy..but if you want to test the waters and c where it will go then go for it but realize you may lose a friendship
2007-10-15 06:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by switchmistress 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should apologize for being so drunk that you passed out on him, he was being nice.
let it go. you arent over your last bf so don't confuse friendship with anything else...
2007-10-15 06:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by howie r 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make the move if you're interested, but make sure that you are genuinely interested in him and it's not just a rebound thing.
2007-10-15 06:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Warm Breeze 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋