Across the net on a MMMORPG i have a friend who lives in bhutan. She is married to 2 husbands and they both live in the house as her. She has 1 child to one of them(can't remmber which) and when i chatted to the child(he is learning english in school) he seems okay with it and he calls both his "fathers" dad.In bhutan polygamy/yandery is very rare but socially accepted and legal.I havent talked to the husbands but i have seen pictures of them(the game gives everyone a webpage with account)
I dont mind polyandery/gomy but what are your opinions? and why?
2007-10-15 01:07:19 · 18 answers · asked by possessed by insanity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im sorry i think this is like the 6th time i have accidently asked the same question1
2007-10-15 01:13:40 · update #1
i dont see a problem with it... basically its swinging to the next level. i personally wouldnt be able to do it but if people can deal with it and they are happy doing it then why not.. you only get one lofe so live it however you want.. thats the way i live.. i do whatever makes me happy. i dont do anything just to make someone else happy like follow BS rules.. but ill help other people when it makes me happy. making my girlfriend happy makes me extremely happy so i try to make her as happy as i can make her. helping out people less fortunate makes me happy so i try to do that as aften as i can. so basically im saying is do whatever makes you happy. its your life
2007-10-15 01:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dauntilus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it seems cool from the HBO series Big Love. Other than than that I think it's a bit strange. I personally would not want to share a husband with many wives. I think I would be jealous. I prefer monogamy.
2007-10-15 08:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as all parties are informed and have communication firmly in place, i dont see anything wrong with it.
Most marriages have at least one cheating spouse (sad, but true) so this way its all in the open.
2007-10-15 08:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its right you should devote you heart and soul to one person. I don't know how that could work though because would one of the fathers get jelous of the other one at one point or the other.
2007-10-15 08:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by SeraPhim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing new in this world, therefore, everybody is free to do whatever pleases them.
In my country, it is not allowed. Though it sound strange to me. One WOMAN married to two MEN. Well, I would not be part of it.
2007-10-15 08:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
polygamy is necessary when there s no child for husband,he will try to marry another one to get children but un ths case i dont find good reason for polygamy
2007-10-15 08:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Personal opinion would be to go 4 Monogamy....man i can't bear one gal.....what be with 2 of em?
2007-10-15 08:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by suraj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a matter between 3 persons if law of Nepal permits this type of relation. no body have business with it
2007-10-15 08:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by vep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each there own!! Here in the US it would be socially unacceptable, but in other countries it is!! I don't care for it but I don't judge others religions and beliefs!!
2007-10-15 08:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats his/her boat. As long as no one is being hurt, who am I to say whether monogamy is the correct form of marriage? Monogamy is just what is forced on us as a society.
2007-10-15 08:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by mrr86 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋