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Question

mean in a relationship if you choose to wait for marriage to have sex what can you do to stick to that choice, Does it mean that you are not going to kiss and touch? Does it mean no more cuddling? what can be done exactly just to wait, because sometimes it is so hard that you feel like doing it , but then you have made a choice,
Please dont just read, Answer,

What can be done to stick to the choice of not having sex before marriage?
When you are together what can you do with him/her that wont make you think about it?

Answer 1

Well girl I don't know what to tell you.. as long as your partner accept the waiting, you guys can do other sex like things that doesn't involved intercourse, read some literature on stuff like this.. there is plenty ways to pleasure each other and still save the best for last.. good luck hon.

Answer 2

I think you're just a loner, and I don't think there's anything really wrong with that. Its good to choose your friend's wisely, so maybe you are just waiting and checking things out from a distance when you encounter new people. The good ones do stick around (assuming you are friendly). Instead of looking at your situation in a negative way, turn it around to something positive. Being comfortable with yourself (rather than dependency on others) is a good thing. Its also better than naively jumping into new relationships, and later winding up hurt.

Answer 3

What can be done to stick to the choice of not having sex before marriage?
Answer:Nothing should be done.
When you are together what can you do with him/her that wont make you think about it?
Answer:You can discuss about what can be done after marriage.

Answer 4

make a goal with someone who you really love and share with you the same idea he/she and together stick to it , always remind each other about it , and do things together that which will take you mind out of it (sports, Going out , Focus on your studies), but doesn't mean you cant touch and kiss but do it in a public place not when you are alone

Answer 5

If you truly love your partner, it is possible to wait until marriage to have sex. As for the kissing and touching it is the only way to show affection as long as you have discussed the bounderies.

Answer 6

My now husband and I talked about it and we helped each other make sure we stuck to our decision. We still kissed, touched, etc.... but we never went to the next level until after we were married.

We did lots of stuff together. We cooked, went hiking, watched movies, normal stuff you would do. We just made sure we never pushed one to the point where we might go farther than we wanted to.

I am so glad we did wait... made the honeymoon awesome and gave us so much more to learn about each other after we were married.

Answer 7

Well, as far as I'm aware if you're doing it for "religious" reasons then no, unfortunately even french kissing would be considered risque, however, if you & your patner have just decided to save yurselves for the big night then by all means there are pleanty of other thigs you could do to have fun that wouldn't be full intercourse (but if you go down that route they may well lead to .......)

Answer 8

You're going to think about it. You just need to stick to your decision that there will no sex before marriage.

Answer 9

Do not put yourselves in temptation. Keep things short and sweet with the kisses. You can laugh and don't do things that will turn on the heat between the two of you .... keep friends around when your together.

Answer 10

Okay after reading,i think i understand wat u mean, as for decent girl,even cuddling,kissing and touching is not allow coz what they say is what they mean but no worries there is still some girl except this 3 of them,as long as they did not went to bed with you......